When we finally find that special someone, we want to share our lives with them, if not for a lifetime, at least for a long and meaningful time.
But sometimes, that person slips away from us.
How do you get them back? Not only can you get them back, but they would even crawl back to you.
How do you make your ex crawl back to you fast? Here are four tips.
Tell him or her how much you love them -- This doesn't mean that you would beg your ex to take you back.
Telling them truthfully how you feel about them allows them to feel the love that they felt for you.
Take the courage to tell your ex and he or she can not resist telling you that they feel the same.
Maintain a positive attitude -- Being negative only lets your ex feel assured that he or she was right about leaving you.
Be positive about your other relationships: with friends, family, colleagues.
This would also practice you so that when you speak to your ex he or she would notice that they have been with a wonderful person and would want to be with you still.
Understand yourself and help them see eye to eye with you -- Putting yourself in you ex's toes is one thing, understanding yourself is another thing.
Talk to your ex in a non-blaming manner and tell them sincerely why you act in certain ways.
Help him or her see what you've been through.
Remember that this person has loved or may still love you but just doesn't get you quite right.
Once he or she is able to understand you, they will not only spring back but would even help you in those opportunities.
Respect his or her principles -- One of the main reasons for a couple's misunderstandings that result to a breakup is their differences whether in beliefs, background, or simple philosophies in life.
Be willing to give.
Do not hold them back to practice their faith or even just do what they love doing.
This doesn't mean giving up your own principles but you have to let them have theirs, respect them, and tell him or her that you are willing to compromise.