Would You Like To Restore Your Marriage?
When you are trying to restore your marriage one thing you must keep in mind - love within a marriage cannot be taken for granted. You need to nurture it or it will die. A well nourished relationship is very hard to destroy.
As you may already know communication between couples can be fraught with problems. Our egos and our pride often get in the way of nourishing our relationships. We all know deep down inside when we should have apologized for our behavior when we have done wrong. But we didn't do it because we didn't want to give in or appear weak or make the other person think they have won in some way or other.
People often let their egos rule. You can lose the most wonderful relationship because you let your ego rule you when someone else pays more attention to you than your spouse. If you are unfaithful and get caught you risk losing the man or woman of your dreams…but you did it anyway because your ego made you respond to the other person and forget the wonderful person who has been by your side. It was all done to please and stroke your ego. What a waste.
To nourish the relationship you have, or that you want to get back on track, put your partner first. If you want to do something but you know your spouse would like you to stay home, or visit relatives or go shopping or help around the house then take the time to do that so you give your partner the attention and love that he or she deserves. There will be plenty of other times to do the things you want to do. And your spouse will either let you do them alone with your friends or they will join you in your activities because they remember you did the same for them when they needed you.
The rewards of the restoration of marriage are that you will be able to come home to your loving partner at the end of a hard day. You will have the confidence of knowing that there is always someone who believes in you and what you are trying to achieve. You will be comforted knowing you are not on your own and don't have to spend your life in a series of short-term relationships or affairs just because you are lonely and longing to get back the feeling you had with your marriage partner.
Restoration of marriage is especially important if you have children. You love them dearly so don't you think you would like to give them a chance of growing up in a happy home with parents who also love each other?
You married your spouse because you loved them and wanted to stay with them forever. If you are now having problems just remember ALL relationships need to be worked on. You can't just give up on a relationship that means so much to you and in which you have so much to lose if it ends. You owe it to your partner and yourself to try everything you can to restore your marriage.
Yes being happily married takes hard work and commitment but the benefits are fantastic.
As you may already know communication between couples can be fraught with problems. Our egos and our pride often get in the way of nourishing our relationships. We all know deep down inside when we should have apologized for our behavior when we have done wrong. But we didn't do it because we didn't want to give in or appear weak or make the other person think they have won in some way or other.
People often let their egos rule. You can lose the most wonderful relationship because you let your ego rule you when someone else pays more attention to you than your spouse. If you are unfaithful and get caught you risk losing the man or woman of your dreams…but you did it anyway because your ego made you respond to the other person and forget the wonderful person who has been by your side. It was all done to please and stroke your ego. What a waste.
To nourish the relationship you have, or that you want to get back on track, put your partner first. If you want to do something but you know your spouse would like you to stay home, or visit relatives or go shopping or help around the house then take the time to do that so you give your partner the attention and love that he or she deserves. There will be plenty of other times to do the things you want to do. And your spouse will either let you do them alone with your friends or they will join you in your activities because they remember you did the same for them when they needed you.
The rewards of the restoration of marriage are that you will be able to come home to your loving partner at the end of a hard day. You will have the confidence of knowing that there is always someone who believes in you and what you are trying to achieve. You will be comforted knowing you are not on your own and don't have to spend your life in a series of short-term relationships or affairs just because you are lonely and longing to get back the feeling you had with your marriage partner.
Restoration of marriage is especially important if you have children. You love them dearly so don't you think you would like to give them a chance of growing up in a happy home with parents who also love each other?
You married your spouse because you loved them and wanted to stay with them forever. If you are now having problems just remember ALL relationships need to be worked on. You can't just give up on a relationship that means so much to you and in which you have so much to lose if it ends. You owe it to your partner and yourself to try everything you can to restore your marriage.
Yes being happily married takes hard work and commitment but the benefits are fantastic.
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