Have you been doing everything you can think of to get a great guy to fall in love with you? Does it seem like the more you try the more men scurry away from you? Are you at a loss and don't understand why they refuse to give a good woman like you a bit of love? This can be a tricky emotion and it doesn't always come when we'd like it to.
But there are some things you can do to make love come your way.
You can start by ridding yourself of your desperation.
This might be difficult to talk yourself through, but you really need to step out there looking like it doesn't matter if a date works out or not.
I don't mean you need to be cold and indifferent.
You just don't want to hang on every word as though your life depended on it.
Think of a lunch date you might have with a new female co-worker.
This is someone you'd like to get to know and enjoy being with.
You ask her a few questions and tell her about yourself, but that weight of a romance isn't there so you can just be yourself.
Try to carry this same attitude with him.
Friendly, open, polite and attentive, without that impending romance weighing in on you.
He'll feel it too.
He can just relax and not have to wonder about your great expectations.
He'll open up and feel more at ease about talking to you about anything.
Of course, you do want to try and ensure that your time with him is relatively intimate.
Don't always be hanging out with a crowd.
Plan for cozy dinners at your place, rent a few movies or simply sit late into the night gazing at the stars while discussing the intricacies of life.
No matter what you're doing or where, you want a level of comfort and ease that will always have you feeling good about yourselves.
The emotion bond will grow through this sense of ease.
Sprinkle in a bit of admiration and show him that he's increasingly important to your life.
When it's all this easy, he'll fall in love with you.