Have You Noticed Any Cheating Behavior?
These are some of the common signs to look for if you are concerned that you spouse is being unfaithful.
Addressing each one as follows:
The other person might be calling to see if your partner will answer the phone. If you do not have called ID – get one. Then you can see who the hang up calls are coming from. If you choose to call the number back, make sure you do that from a pay phone so that your number is not recognized.
See if you can verify your spouse’s whereabouts. If they are going out of town get an itinerary. Try calling the hotel room when they would not expect it, maybe an hour after you have talked and said goodnight for the evening.
Unless something such as a dramatic weight gain or loss has occurred, it is suspicious if your spouse suddenly stops wearing a wedding ring.
If your partner’s sex drive suddenly declines significantly, it could be a big sign that something is going on. Some people are simply not interested in their spouse sexually once they are sleeping with a new partner. Others feel too guilty, to have sex with their spouse when they are sleeping with someone else. Be aware that a decline in sex drive can also be caused by stress, medication or other issues as well.
If you suddenly no longer have access to the cell phone bill, the home phone bill or your partner’s credit card bill, it could be a sign that there is something on those bills that they don’t want you to see.
It is a paradox of affairs that a cheater will often have a renewed interest in sex with you. If your partner has not indicated a desire to work on your sex life, you might well wonder whether he or she have learned these techniques somewhere else.
Unless this is part of a desire to get healthy, decided by both of you, your partner might be interested in looking good for someone else.
If your partner is suddenly away from home more that usual, but brings you a gift nearly every time they come home, your partner could be buying you gifts both to ease the guilt and to avoid making you suspicious.
If your spouse is demonstrating some of the above signs or behaviors, you may have legitimate cause to worry. Take time to examine your relationship and see if there are clues as to why your spouse might be cheating, though there are certainly situations where there do not seem to be any concrete reasons why people cheat.
If you believe that your spouse is cheating, it may be wise to look for some evidence before you confront them. Many cheating spouses will tell you that it’s “just your imagination” when you confront them with your suspicions. If you want to get to the bottom of the situation once and for all, confronting your partner with evidence is the best way. Find those hidden cell phone bills. Read personal emails, check into travel arrangements for those “ business trips”
Infidelity in a marriage is one of the most devastating things we can face. But, until you know once and for all whether or not your spouse is really cheating, you can’t deal with the situation and try to recover. Intuition is often right on target, if you think something is wrong and your spouse is displaying cheating behavior, there is a good chance you are right. So take the time to find out what is really going on in your marriage so that you can get on with your life.
- You start receiving hang up calls on the phone.
- Your spouse starts working a lot of overtime or taking a lot of business trips.
- Your spouse stops wearing their wedding ring.
- Interest in sex is lacking.
- You lose access to bills.
- Your spouse suddenly wants to try new sexual techniques.
- The emphasis on your partner’s appearance increases, they join a gym, etc.
- Your begin to get showered with gifts.
Addressing each one as follows:
The other person might be calling to see if your partner will answer the phone. If you do not have called ID – get one. Then you can see who the hang up calls are coming from. If you choose to call the number back, make sure you do that from a pay phone so that your number is not recognized.
See if you can verify your spouse’s whereabouts. If they are going out of town get an itinerary. Try calling the hotel room when they would not expect it, maybe an hour after you have talked and said goodnight for the evening.
Unless something such as a dramatic weight gain or loss has occurred, it is suspicious if your spouse suddenly stops wearing a wedding ring.
If your partner’s sex drive suddenly declines significantly, it could be a big sign that something is going on. Some people are simply not interested in their spouse sexually once they are sleeping with a new partner. Others feel too guilty, to have sex with their spouse when they are sleeping with someone else. Be aware that a decline in sex drive can also be caused by stress, medication or other issues as well.
If you suddenly no longer have access to the cell phone bill, the home phone bill or your partner’s credit card bill, it could be a sign that there is something on those bills that they don’t want you to see.
It is a paradox of affairs that a cheater will often have a renewed interest in sex with you. If your partner has not indicated a desire to work on your sex life, you might well wonder whether he or she have learned these techniques somewhere else.
Unless this is part of a desire to get healthy, decided by both of you, your partner might be interested in looking good for someone else.
If your partner is suddenly away from home more that usual, but brings you a gift nearly every time they come home, your partner could be buying you gifts both to ease the guilt and to avoid making you suspicious.
If your spouse is demonstrating some of the above signs or behaviors, you may have legitimate cause to worry. Take time to examine your relationship and see if there are clues as to why your spouse might be cheating, though there are certainly situations where there do not seem to be any concrete reasons why people cheat.
If you believe that your spouse is cheating, it may be wise to look for some evidence before you confront them. Many cheating spouses will tell you that it’s “just your imagination” when you confront them with your suspicions. If you want to get to the bottom of the situation once and for all, confronting your partner with evidence is the best way. Find those hidden cell phone bills. Read personal emails, check into travel arrangements for those “ business trips”
Infidelity in a marriage is one of the most devastating things we can face. But, until you know once and for all whether or not your spouse is really cheating, you can’t deal with the situation and try to recover. Intuition is often right on target, if you think something is wrong and your spouse is displaying cheating behavior, there is a good chance you are right. So take the time to find out what is really going on in your marriage so that you can get on with your life.
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