Resistance and obstacles (like boyfriends) spur desire because people always want what they can't have.
If there's something keeping you apart from the girl you want, then play it up further.
It will add to the thrill and create the 'chase'.
Seduction is not possible without some sort of barrier.
If there's nothing keeping you apart, then it's too easy and the attraction will wear off.
Paradoxically, parents try to keep young lovers away from themselves only enhancing the desire they feel for one another.
Try to create subtle barriers with your Bond girl and she'll be constantly thinking about you.
Barriers you can create: 1.
Tell a woman you'd like to make out with her right in the coffee shop if people wouldn't stare.
2.
Tell her that her guy friends are keeping you two apart and that they might not approve.
3.
Tell her if you weren't gay you'd be all over her (tread very carefully with this one).
While a barrier such as a boyfriend is usually strong, there are ways around it.
It's my opinion that if a woman is out flirting with other men, then her relationship is not that strong anyway.
Don't let a little detail, like a boyfriend, get in your way and lose the chance to attract the woman you want.
Keep a strong frame if a girl mentions her boyfriend.
Get her to talk about his negative qualities subtly while you set yourself up as his exciting opposite.
A lot beautiful women are oppressed by domineering jerk-off boyfriends.
Use these bad guys to your advantage.