If you want to get your ex to chase you and beg you to take them back it's going to take a bit of work.
When a relationship ends both parties aren't always in agreement.
One person may feel that they are losing the love of their life while the other is anxious to move on with their life.
If you want to get your ex lover to come crawling back asking for your forgiveness you need to start reminding them what they've lost.
One thing that many people lose sight of when a relationship ends is that their ex was once crazy about them.
There was a time their ex fell madly in love with them and that's the feeling they need to recreate now.
If you want to get your ex to chase you, you need to start by reminding them of why they fell in love with you.
To do that you need to transform back into the person you were early in your relationship.
Everyone changes over time and it's those changes that often lead to a split.
Think back to what qualities your ex found attractive about you initially.
Those are the qualities you need to work on bringing back to the forefront.
When you consider that you are doing it to win back the love of your life, it's well worth it.
Just changing back to who they once loved isn't going to get your ex to chase you again.
You need to play a few simple, harmless mind games with them.
The easiest is the standard playing hard to get.
Obviously it has a different twist when it's your ex that you are trying to get back, but the premise is really the same.
You want to become unavailable to your ex.
Disappear from his or her life for a few weeks and let them wonder where you've gotten to.
Once you do reappear don't be too forthcoming about what's going on with your life.
The fewer details the better.
You want your ex to believe that you are moving on with your life without them.
At the same time you want them to recognize all those qualities in you that they once found irresistible.
Once this happens, it will be your ex who comes begging for a second chance.