The Part Of Fun In Surviving An Affair
If you feel that, at this moment in time, all is lost, remember this is just the CURRENT reality.Whether it rests lasting or not - is up to you.
Of course, it's only natural that , in the aftermath of your partner's cheating that you feel overwhelmed and dis-oriented. Constantly assaulted by the negative thoughts and images of the affair. Your partner in the arms of the other person. The continuing questions of "why" and "what could i have done to prevent it." The agoniwing sense of loss and, worst of allm betrayal of your trust. The rupture of the bond you thought was "sacred." Without a doubt, all this gnaws away at your self-respect.
But, keep firmly in mind that you will not increase your self-image by pretending that you don't feel ravaged.The good news is that once you accept the troublesome feelings, thoughts and mental images into your current life situation, you will weaken some of their negative results.
And this effect is escalating. The greater your cooperation, the more positive the results.Now is the time to fix your power on creating those desireable results.
When you take into account all you've had to endure, and are still having to work your way through, the rage, the bitterness, the troublesome memories, the sour memories, it's only natural that the word "fun" isn't the first word that floats into your mind these days.
Now is the time to begin having fun again. As strange as it may seem at the first glance - when you consider it further - nourishing your emotions and your life force is the best way to cut , through the clouds of despair, to a healthy, more contented you. That makes sense - doesn't it?
Recall all the things you love to do before the affair. The ones that bring pleasure and animation. The ones you have'nt been around to see way too long. Make friends with all that fun again.Even though at the start you may not be totally "in the mood." You'll find by nourishing your fun and your self, your life will increase with greater speed than you can possibly visualize.
Of course, it's only natural that , in the aftermath of your partner's cheating that you feel overwhelmed and dis-oriented. Constantly assaulted by the negative thoughts and images of the affair. Your partner in the arms of the other person. The continuing questions of "why" and "what could i have done to prevent it." The agoniwing sense of loss and, worst of allm betrayal of your trust. The rupture of the bond you thought was "sacred." Without a doubt, all this gnaws away at your self-respect.
But, keep firmly in mind that you will not increase your self-image by pretending that you don't feel ravaged.The good news is that once you accept the troublesome feelings, thoughts and mental images into your current life situation, you will weaken some of their negative results.
And this effect is escalating. The greater your cooperation, the more positive the results.Now is the time to fix your power on creating those desireable results.
When you take into account all you've had to endure, and are still having to work your way through, the rage, the bitterness, the troublesome memories, the sour memories, it's only natural that the word "fun" isn't the first word that floats into your mind these days.
Now is the time to begin having fun again. As strange as it may seem at the first glance - when you consider it further - nourishing your emotions and your life force is the best way to cut , through the clouds of despair, to a healthy, more contented you. That makes sense - doesn't it?
Recall all the things you love to do before the affair. The ones that bring pleasure and animation. The ones you have'nt been around to see way too long. Make friends with all that fun again.Even though at the start you may not be totally "in the mood." You'll find by nourishing your fun and your self, your life will increase with greater speed than you can possibly visualize.
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