If you're wanting to become a better lover then you need some ideas! Contrary to popular opinion there is really no such thing as a 'natural' when it comes to being a highly skilled lover.
Like anything else, it requires knowledge and practice.
Here are 6 things that you can learn that will make a great difference.
Apply some of these and you will soon be renowned

1. Focus on your lover's pleasure rather than your own.
   This seems somewhat counterintuitive, but you yourself will actually gain a lot more pleasure when you focus on the woman's responsiveness.
   It will also make you last longer (ideal for the woman).
   
2. Use your hands to explore her body.
   A woman's entire body is her sex organ, not just her genitals and breasts.
   Women love to be massaged slowly.
   Get some massage oil and use it liberally.
   Even without oil, you should spend a long time caressing her entire body.
   A woman takes a lot longer to 'warm up' than a man.
   
3. Find her key sensitive spots.
   It can be great fun to discover a woman's most sensitive areas and you might be surprised what they are.
   Some common super-sensitive spots in women are her neck, ears, lips, forearms, back, knees, inner thighs and feet.
   Find these and you will be the most impressive lover your partner has ever had.
   
4. Go down on a woman from the side.
   Most men, when they perform oral sex on a woman, simply kneel between her legs.
   Kneeling beside her instead will create an entirely different sensation for her.
   It also allows you to use your hands to caress her upper body, particularly her stomach and breasts, which can be highly arousing.
   
5. Make her come before you penetrate her.
   Very few women orgasm easily through penetration.
   It will be more satisfying for her if you can bring her to a climax before entering her.
   
6. When penetrating her, vary your depth and speed.
   The variation can be truly exciting for her as well as you.
   
7. Step outside your comfort zone.
   Try new things! Have you discussed a threesome, going to a swingers club, even a skinny dip at a nearby beach.
   Don't wait any longer.
   Life's too short to play it safe, and you just might wish you'd tried it sooner!

I hope these few tips will encourage you to find out more ways to enhance your skills as a lover.
You and your partner will greatly appreciate it.