How to Ask Your Girlfriend to Be Your Maid of Honor
- 1). Call your girlfriend and schedule a time for the two of you to meet. She might catch on to the reason for the get together but it is nicer if you make the plans without mentioning the reason. Otherwise, you might as well ask her on the phone.
- 2). Ask your maid of honor before you ask other friends or family to be bridesmaids. As per her title, she’s in a position of honor, so treat her as such.
- 3). Let your girlfriend know how much of the wedding process you want her to be a part of when you ask her. Give her the chance to accept once you invite her to be a key witness to your wedding first. Then make it clear if you want her to join you in the planning process or just the main events like the shower, bachelorette party and the wedding itself.
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