Get That Girlfriend by Being Results Focused on Valentines Day
The next big occasion following Christmas, comes that special time of year when two hearts will collide whether a relationship is present or not.
Yes, it is the season of St Valentine.
The illustrious roman catholic who was imprisoned for creating marital engagements for soldiers who had actually been forbidden to carry out such act.
He uses the infamous quote 'from your Valentine', which is one of the reasons the date of the 14th February has become the most important day of the year for lovers (or not) to show how much they feel about each other.
This article is written for the wondrous male who is either in a relationship and looking to impress his girlfriend or just looking to impress the woman of his dreams with a bit of arty romance.
It is not about an idea for what you can purchase or give, but about planning and even more so, the result.
That leads me onto the main focus of the article and that is about how being results focused at all times ensures you obtain maximum success when achieving your goal of winning the ever confusing, ever indefinable, angel of your life.
Firstly, ask yourself what you are trying to achieve, now this could be one of several goals and the main ones are listed below.
It is also true to say that after looking at what you are trying to achieve, the approach you will need to undertake will become even clearer and thereby offer even more potential of maximum success.
Possible Goals: 1.
Improve your relationship (with a handmade gift or card) 2.
Make her your girlfriend 3.
Sleep with the woman (be careful on this one) If you are currently in a long-term relationship, then you may be thinking that gifts and cards are all you need to keep the relationship on its toes.
But that means spending money.
Therefore, the next thing you need to do is decide how much money you are wishing to spend, remember still keeping the goal in mind.
Don't forget that getting a woman on Valentine's day does not always come down to money, the creative side of the brain can far outweigh the money motivator when used correctly and in-line with the unconscious cells of the brain (something to read up on and find out more about).
I guess what I'm saying is that you don't have to be a millionaire to get what you want from a relationship or otherwise, if you are clever and creative about it and most importantly plan your approach according to your goal.
The next important part of being results focused is to take pride in what you are doing for her, don't do anything half heartedly, this way you will ensure you deliver your idea and she will love every minute, we all know that confidence pays off and some believe that it is directly influential on the success of an activity.
Sometimes, just writing down the steps will prove beneficial and help you remember the little details, which in the end (i.
e.
the achievement of your goal) can make all the difference.
Finally, and this is ever more important if your relationship is long term...
Take on or set yourself challenging goals, which are beyond the normal activity of the day to day connection with your lady partner.
In doing this, you will deliver a clear contribution to your life and at the end of the day, who doesn't wish to be a part of your all changing, all wondrous development in life.
It is a cliff hanger and an inspiration and only you can access it.
As long as you can tell yourself this on a regular basis, you will be astounded by the results.
Yes, it is the season of St Valentine.
The illustrious roman catholic who was imprisoned for creating marital engagements for soldiers who had actually been forbidden to carry out such act.
He uses the infamous quote 'from your Valentine', which is one of the reasons the date of the 14th February has become the most important day of the year for lovers (or not) to show how much they feel about each other.
This article is written for the wondrous male who is either in a relationship and looking to impress his girlfriend or just looking to impress the woman of his dreams with a bit of arty romance.
It is not about an idea for what you can purchase or give, but about planning and even more so, the result.
That leads me onto the main focus of the article and that is about how being results focused at all times ensures you obtain maximum success when achieving your goal of winning the ever confusing, ever indefinable, angel of your life.
Firstly, ask yourself what you are trying to achieve, now this could be one of several goals and the main ones are listed below.
It is also true to say that after looking at what you are trying to achieve, the approach you will need to undertake will become even clearer and thereby offer even more potential of maximum success.
Possible Goals: 1.
Improve your relationship (with a handmade gift or card) 2.
Make her your girlfriend 3.
Sleep with the woman (be careful on this one) If you are currently in a long-term relationship, then you may be thinking that gifts and cards are all you need to keep the relationship on its toes.
But that means spending money.
Therefore, the next thing you need to do is decide how much money you are wishing to spend, remember still keeping the goal in mind.
Don't forget that getting a woman on Valentine's day does not always come down to money, the creative side of the brain can far outweigh the money motivator when used correctly and in-line with the unconscious cells of the brain (something to read up on and find out more about).
I guess what I'm saying is that you don't have to be a millionaire to get what you want from a relationship or otherwise, if you are clever and creative about it and most importantly plan your approach according to your goal.
The next important part of being results focused is to take pride in what you are doing for her, don't do anything half heartedly, this way you will ensure you deliver your idea and she will love every minute, we all know that confidence pays off and some believe that it is directly influential on the success of an activity.
Sometimes, just writing down the steps will prove beneficial and help you remember the little details, which in the end (i.
e.
the achievement of your goal) can make all the difference.
Finally, and this is ever more important if your relationship is long term...
Take on or set yourself challenging goals, which are beyond the normal activity of the day to day connection with your lady partner.
In doing this, you will deliver a clear contribution to your life and at the end of the day, who doesn't wish to be a part of your all changing, all wondrous development in life.
It is a cliff hanger and an inspiration and only you can access it.
As long as you can tell yourself this on a regular basis, you will be astounded by the results.
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