3 Signs of Bad Chinese Brides!
I'm sure you've heard plenty of talk about 'culture difference' if you are planning on marrying a Chinese bride or dating Chinese women with a view to marriage.
But perhaps where this culture difference is very important is not so much in the day-to-day dealings with your Chinese girlfriend or wife, but with your actual choice of bride in the first place.
I'm going to be blunt with you, it's actually nothing special if a Chinese woman has agreed to marry you, marriage can be a somewhat perfunctory agreement in many Chinese womens' mind, but that doesn't mean all of them.
If you can choose the right one, then I can assure you from my years of experience living in China, and with Chinese women, not to mention having married one, that you will have a wife that will be the envy of everyone you know.
So let's take a look at three signs that you are about to marry the wrong one: 1.
No matter you are dating online or actually in person, I would say to you that any Chinese women that suggest you should be sending or giving them money in any way shape or form, is a wrong choice and a huge warning flag.
No matter even if it's not an online dating scam, but an actual Chinese woman who you are actually in a relationship with, giving her money, no matter she 'claims' that's her culture is really a big mistake.
Don't fall for it! 2.
Another warning sign that I've seen that is very common but mostly overlooked by western guys until it's too late, is when their potential Chinese bride is actually very selfish, yet is hiding it by 'appearing' to be quite the opposite.
Let me explain something very important, Chinese culture values kindness and generosity in a female, so in general most females will 'act' kind and generous, it doesn't necessarily mean this is their true character at all.
Don't ever take Chinese women on first appearances.
They even can keep this act up until after marriage; I've seen it too many times to mention.
If your Chinese brides' character seems 'too good to be true', then you can be sure it is too good to be true! 3.
If your Chinese bride or girlfriend is over emotional when you tell her something that she doesn't want to hear or doesn't agree with, then you should perhaps know that something is wrong...
and I don't mean with you! Many Chinese girls have been incredibly spoiled by their family as children, to the degree that their overall psychological make-up can be quite immature if you choose the wrong one.
If by comparison to western females you consider your Chinese fiance or girlfriend to be over-emotional, then let me suggest to you that she probably is, and no, it's not simply a 'cultural difference' you should be adapting to.
Not all Chinese women are that way at all, but many are.
You don't really want to spend the rest of your life with someone who behaves like a five-year old do you?
But perhaps where this culture difference is very important is not so much in the day-to-day dealings with your Chinese girlfriend or wife, but with your actual choice of bride in the first place.
I'm going to be blunt with you, it's actually nothing special if a Chinese woman has agreed to marry you, marriage can be a somewhat perfunctory agreement in many Chinese womens' mind, but that doesn't mean all of them.
If you can choose the right one, then I can assure you from my years of experience living in China, and with Chinese women, not to mention having married one, that you will have a wife that will be the envy of everyone you know.
So let's take a look at three signs that you are about to marry the wrong one: 1.
No matter you are dating online or actually in person, I would say to you that any Chinese women that suggest you should be sending or giving them money in any way shape or form, is a wrong choice and a huge warning flag.
No matter even if it's not an online dating scam, but an actual Chinese woman who you are actually in a relationship with, giving her money, no matter she 'claims' that's her culture is really a big mistake.
Don't fall for it! 2.
Another warning sign that I've seen that is very common but mostly overlooked by western guys until it's too late, is when their potential Chinese bride is actually very selfish, yet is hiding it by 'appearing' to be quite the opposite.
Let me explain something very important, Chinese culture values kindness and generosity in a female, so in general most females will 'act' kind and generous, it doesn't necessarily mean this is their true character at all.
Don't ever take Chinese women on first appearances.
They even can keep this act up until after marriage; I've seen it too many times to mention.
If your Chinese brides' character seems 'too good to be true', then you can be sure it is too good to be true! 3.
If your Chinese bride or girlfriend is over emotional when you tell her something that she doesn't want to hear or doesn't agree with, then you should perhaps know that something is wrong...
and I don't mean with you! Many Chinese girls have been incredibly spoiled by their family as children, to the degree that their overall psychological make-up can be quite immature if you choose the wrong one.
If by comparison to western females you consider your Chinese fiance or girlfriend to be over-emotional, then let me suggest to you that she probably is, and no, it's not simply a 'cultural difference' you should be adapting to.
Not all Chinese women are that way at all, but many are.
You don't really want to spend the rest of your life with someone who behaves like a five-year old do you?
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