As humans we are all built to function best when we are involved in healthy relationships.
That said, relationships are fragile and require constant work to keep them healthy.
Unfortunately, relationships fall apart and breakups happen.
Have you ever been involved in a breakup and wanted to somehow get back at your ex?Most of the thoughts that come to mind are hurtful and will actually make the situation worse, but there are ways that you can "get back" at your ex and possibly repair your relationship.
These four strategies not only show you how to get back at your ex but they might actually help you get your ex back.
1.
Close the doors of communication.
This strategy may seem wrong especially if your goal is to get back together, but it can be one of the best steps to take.
By closing off communications your are giving yourself a break and allowing your ex to rethink the whole breakup.
He or she might actually come to realize just how important your relationship actually was.
2.
Don't be needy.
No one wants or needs someone who begs and clings.
This behavior causes your ex to think that you are desperate.
Instead, by exhibiting strength and confidence, your ex will see that you have moved on and are getting alone well without them.
3.
Rekindle old friendships.
The last thing you need to be doing is sitting around waiting for your ex to call.
Get out of the house and enjoy your freedom with your friends.
This strategy will help you take your mind off of the breakup and help you to heal mentally.
If your ex is aware that you are enjoying your social life, they may come to the realization that they have lost an important person in their life.
4.
Just Be yourself.
Return to the person you were before you met your ex.
Obviously, there was something special about you that attracted your ex in the first place.
Revive your old self and you may revive your relationship.