Hong Kong Dating and Meeting Beautiful Women In Hong Kong
Ok guys, back again with another article devoted to Hong Kong dating. This is one of my favorite cities and I have dated multiple women on in my travels there. I have some advice for handling multiple women over there if that's your thing. If not, then read on anyways because all of our articles are high quality, no BS information devoted to helping you become the 24/7 Attractive Man.
a) Limit your discussions to the relationship being fun, exciting, unpredictable, and incredibly sexual - remember the cardinal rule of escalation: changing dynamics keep relationships interesting. Keep it that way in her mind. When she thinks of you, she should be thinking of the aforementioned words. Make sure you highlight your personal stories on these precedents.
b) Don't "allude" to a serious escalation - just like a boxer, you don't want to telegraph your punches. Don't make her think that the relationship is going to be serious. Don't instill verbiages of "love" and "living in together" unless you are sure of this. I keep my verbiage theme to what i mentioned in a)
c) Turn off ALL judgmental mechanisms - you don't want to tell stories on how you think so and so is a slut for being with many men, or make any judgments on how certain women look. You don't want her to start thinking she is a slut. If you start judging people with her, then she will subconsciously think "what does he think of me??!" If she starts judging on other girls while you are out, don't agree or disagree, just brush it off. Trust me, you'll thank me later.
d) Appreciate her well - Remember, she is doing a favor for you by giving you sex without going through a whole lot of stuff. There is nothing wrong with taking her to a nice dinner or something. Make sure you verbally reward, SOI, and reinforce to her how wonderful she is.
e) Relationship Maintenance through stories - You don't have to call every now and then, but you want to keep them involved in your life. Tell stories on the phone (preferably) or on email. This is my favorite maintenance tool. They don't always have to be fun or exciting, most of them actually should be real (like my story i told one of my girls about this root canal i had yesterday)...the more insights she has on your life, the most likely she will be hooked without you even lifting a finger.
Ok guys, that should be enough information to get your head spinning. Remember, we just launched a site devoted to helping asians and other guys with Hong Kong Dating and anywhere else for that matter.
a) Limit your discussions to the relationship being fun, exciting, unpredictable, and incredibly sexual - remember the cardinal rule of escalation: changing dynamics keep relationships interesting. Keep it that way in her mind. When she thinks of you, she should be thinking of the aforementioned words. Make sure you highlight your personal stories on these precedents.
b) Don't "allude" to a serious escalation - just like a boxer, you don't want to telegraph your punches. Don't make her think that the relationship is going to be serious. Don't instill verbiages of "love" and "living in together" unless you are sure of this. I keep my verbiage theme to what i mentioned in a)
c) Turn off ALL judgmental mechanisms - you don't want to tell stories on how you think so and so is a slut for being with many men, or make any judgments on how certain women look. You don't want her to start thinking she is a slut. If you start judging people with her, then she will subconsciously think "what does he think of me??!" If she starts judging on other girls while you are out, don't agree or disagree, just brush it off. Trust me, you'll thank me later.
d) Appreciate her well - Remember, she is doing a favor for you by giving you sex without going through a whole lot of stuff. There is nothing wrong with taking her to a nice dinner or something. Make sure you verbally reward, SOI, and reinforce to her how wonderful she is.
e) Relationship Maintenance through stories - You don't have to call every now and then, but you want to keep them involved in your life. Tell stories on the phone (preferably) or on email. This is my favorite maintenance tool. They don't always have to be fun or exciting, most of them actually should be real (like my story i told one of my girls about this root canal i had yesterday)...the more insights she has on your life, the most likely she will be hooked without you even lifting a finger.
Ok guys, that should be enough information to get your head spinning. Remember, we just launched a site devoted to helping asians and other guys with Hong Kong Dating and anywhere else for that matter.
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