Instructions

1

Smile when you talk to people and act interested in what they're saying. Showing outward signs of interest puts people at ease and makes them feel better about what they're saying.
2

Call people by their names. This makes everday conversation more personal and makes people feel welcome.
3

Give people a hearty hand shake or a warm hug when you meet them. Hugs are the best, but some people are uncomfortable with such close contact. If you don't know the person at all, stick with a hand shake.
4

Accept people's help when they offer it. Recent research studies have shown that we're hard-wired to enjoy helping others and that it's one of the best ways to feel good.
5

Invite people to join you in your activities. This is especially heart-warming to folks how don't have many friends.
6

Compliment people on their appearance or performance. Friendly admiration is one sure way to make them feel good. Take care not tot overdo it though, compliments mean more when you give them sparingly.
7

Listen attentively to what people have to say. When there's a lull in the conversation, ask them about bits of information you remember.