Are you suffering from the pain of a broken heart? Are you feeling lost and wish there was some way to repair your broken relationship? Don't give up hope! You actually have more power to change your situation than you may realize. With a little bit of guidance, it's possible to learn how to heal a broken heart and win back your ex. Just make sure you're not making the common mistakes that will drive your ex farther away.

Most people right after a breakup feel an intense sense of loss and sadness. These emotions, although perfectly normal, can cause you to go into "panic mode" and you may end up doing things that make your situation worse. If you think you're on the verge of losing the one you love forever, it's easy to start acting desperate and needy towards your ex.

But acting desperate and needy will only drive your ex farther away. That's because it's human nature for your ex to pull away if they feel pressured. And that's exactly what happens when you call them all the time, send love letters, try to talk them into giving you another chance, etc. You know what I'm talking about... these are the types of actions that are fear driven.

You must learn to get these fear-based emotions under control and give your ex plenty of space. This is the first step towards setting the stage for a successful reunion. By giving your ex plenty of space you send a message that you're no longer desperately chasing after them. This gives your ex a chance to miss you.

If you want to learn how to heal a broken heart and win back your ex, you're going to have to work in harmony with your ex's basic human nature instead of fighting it. The more you push, the more they will pull away from you. But the opposite is also true... the more you relax and give them space, the more inclined they are to be drawn towards you again.