So, you've just been confronted with the reality that your girlfriend is cheating on you. How do you feel about it? Sad? Angry? Confused? It is sure hurts to accept that your girlfriend considered another man over you. But what makes the situation more aggravating is the fact that you are left clueless as to what to do next. Clearly, this calls for a split. But happens to you? What's you plan? If you are without ideas, here are some relationship advice: how to survive a break up that you should apply.

1. Go somewhere. Don't consider this as a cowardly act. After all, you will still be compelled to face your demons when all is said and done. So you don't have to feel conscious about it when someone thinks they are calling you at. A quiet sanctuary somewhere far from your usual place would be a great venue for some self exploration and meditation. Explore the world for a week or a year - it's your prerogative. Just place everything in order back home and choose a destination. Upon reaching your destination, feel free to grieve over the dissolution of the relationship. After which, embrace your new found freedom. Have fun and experience things you wouldn't have easily experienced had you been attached. I would discourage you though frong taking on flings as they may not help you fully recover. Spare your feelings as well as others too. You don't have to be insensitive about other people's feelings just because your were insensitively dealt with. So while you are away from your toxic environment, take the chance to reinvent yourself. That way, when you do go back, you can be ready to love again.

2. Take on a new routine. We often create schedules basing on our current status in life. When in the state of separation, the best break up advice for men I could give is is to go about things differently. Feel free to do without things you were compelled to do and introduce new practices. Your normal routines will make you remember certain aspects of the past which may make moving on a challenge. If you ate first before you bathed when you were still with your girlfriend, go ahead and bathe first and then take breakfast in a deli. You can break free from the bonds of a standardized routine because you are now only answerable to yourself.

3. Seek Counseling. There's no shame in asking someone's opinion. When you ask for help, it only means that you are well aware of your current limitations and are willing to improve them. When the feelings get in the way of your thinking, have someone guide you through the right path. Control the influence of your hurt feelings with someone's intervention. He or she does not have to be a professional. By talking to your parents or siblings about things, your awareness will be opened up significantly.