How To Get Over A Long Relationship
How to get over the break up from a long relationship
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How to get over the break up from a long relationship
This article is about getting over the break up from a long relationship and how I did it. These points of views on the subject is from my opinion only. So feel free to disagree or like them.
I am going to tell you my story and some others story that I know. You make your own mind up on the subject. Feel free to comment and hopefully this article might help out some people.
Time And More time
Everyday I was hoping to find new love or new life. I had to accept my ex was not coming back into my life. With everyday of think like this it just made me more depressed and miserable.
I was getting to the point were all the time I was spending more of it sitting in a chair in the house crying that life was not working out fro me. It just made everything worst. You can't
Just think that one day your going to wake up and find love again. It takes months or years. I have had a lot of experience in this either going threw this my self or watching my friends or family go threw it.
It took 3 years to find my wife I have now and it just happen she came into my life I didn't control it at all. That is way life is things just don't happen over night. It takes time. My parents have been split up for about
7 years now. My mom left my dad because she wanted to live the party life. My dad still to this day sits in a chair everyday hating life and wondering what he did so bad to make my mom leave him.
He has told me a number of times that he wants to kill himself because he don't want to live life like this.
So this is what I say and how I got over it
I tell my dad and other people going threw it. The way I got threw it. I call it waking up and realizing that the person that you loved before is not the same person now. Think if your ex cared for you the way they did back then you wouldn't be in this place.
They have change they care anymore. It is not the same person. I think of my ex and my mom as strangers to be honest with the people I cared for died when the decide to change. Do you think that they care that you sit their crying in a chair. No because their to busy loving their new life and their new style.
Either parting or being crazy the last thing that is going threw their mind is you. THEIR NOT THE SAME PERSON. THEY DON"T CARE ANY MORE. I can't tell you that enough because once you realize it. Then you can start getting over it.
Find Things To DO
You aren't going to be doing this until you start getting past the first part I was telling you. Once you start to realize that your ex don't care. Keep Yourself busy never be home by self. Go out and start a new life find friends and new hobbies. Don't take time to sit because if you sit you think and it start all coming back to you.
Even if it is walking out your door and realizing how beautiful the world is get yourself out side. Talk to people hear their story's. Pick up a something you can either learn on or go to classes. Find something new everyday to keep your mind on that instead of your ex.
Don't rush things take your time
Once you realize this the better you get. You are not going to be able to control when you fall back in love. If that was the case you would be a everybody would be after you to fix their love life. Love just happens. You don't know where and how it going to happen. You can't control it so stop trying. But don't stop living life because it is not happen fast enough for you.
Do really think that you could handle a new relationship as soon as you just got done with one. You just spent years living life in one. Where your life was rotating on all about your ex. You got to have time to learn how to live life now that your life isn't like that anymore. How can you think some one can come in your life as soon as it happens. If you don't even know how to live life now.
Stop feeling sorry for yourself
The quicker you realize that no really cares but you. No one can help you out of this just you. Do you think you ex cares how you feel. If she did you wouldn't be in this spot.
Your friends might for a while but it gets old quick. The only one can help you is you. Stop sitting their thinking that people or your ex cares how you feel and on day is going wake up in some miracle go back loving you. People change You have had friends that hurt you growing up and you got over that when you realized they didn't care how you felt.
Why are you give time hate life thinking that people and your ex really care if you do. The only one who truly cares and can help is you. So help yourself.
How the world has change in my eyes
First I realize that the world don't care about family's no more and being split up is the new way to go.This is one of the subjects I find myself thinking of all the time. Because spending time with my daughters going to school meetings or even just out in the world. Nobody really stays to together any more.
I remember when I went to school all my friends parents were to together. I can't even remember a friend I had that their parents were not together. Every time I went to a friends house it was always a family in that house.
A mom, a dad and the kids no one I knew was had a split up family. But today even when I go to school meetings all it is split family's. My wife and I feel out of place because we are happy together and when you try to speak to other parents all the want
To talk about is how bad the ex is. People are not caring about how their actions effects people no more. The bad Thing is that the world has accepted that and thinks it is a good thing.
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How to get over the break up from a long relationship
This article is about getting over the break up from a long relationship and how I did it. These points of views on the subject is from my opinion only. So feel free to disagree or like them.
I am going to tell you my story and some others story that I know. You make your own mind up on the subject. Feel free to comment and hopefully this article might help out some people.
Time And More time
Everyday I was hoping to find new love or new life. I had to accept my ex was not coming back into my life. With everyday of think like this it just made me more depressed and miserable.
I was getting to the point were all the time I was spending more of it sitting in a chair in the house crying that life was not working out fro me. It just made everything worst. You can't
Just think that one day your going to wake up and find love again. It takes months or years. I have had a lot of experience in this either going threw this my self or watching my friends or family go threw it.
It took 3 years to find my wife I have now and it just happen she came into my life I didn't control it at all. That is way life is things just don't happen over night. It takes time. My parents have been split up for about
7 years now. My mom left my dad because she wanted to live the party life. My dad still to this day sits in a chair everyday hating life and wondering what he did so bad to make my mom leave him.
He has told me a number of times that he wants to kill himself because he don't want to live life like this.
So this is what I say and how I got over it
I tell my dad and other people going threw it. The way I got threw it. I call it waking up and realizing that the person that you loved before is not the same person now. Think if your ex cared for you the way they did back then you wouldn't be in this place.
They have change they care anymore. It is not the same person. I think of my ex and my mom as strangers to be honest with the people I cared for died when the decide to change. Do you think that they care that you sit their crying in a chair. No because their to busy loving their new life and their new style.
Either parting or being crazy the last thing that is going threw their mind is you. THEIR NOT THE SAME PERSON. THEY DON"T CARE ANY MORE. I can't tell you that enough because once you realize it. Then you can start getting over it.
Find Things To DO
You aren't going to be doing this until you start getting past the first part I was telling you. Once you start to realize that your ex don't care. Keep Yourself busy never be home by self. Go out and start a new life find friends and new hobbies. Don't take time to sit because if you sit you think and it start all coming back to you.
Even if it is walking out your door and realizing how beautiful the world is get yourself out side. Talk to people hear their story's. Pick up a something you can either learn on or go to classes. Find something new everyday to keep your mind on that instead of your ex.
Don't rush things take your time
Once you realize this the better you get. You are not going to be able to control when you fall back in love. If that was the case you would be a everybody would be after you to fix their love life. Love just happens. You don't know where and how it going to happen. You can't control it so stop trying. But don't stop living life because it is not happen fast enough for you.
Do really think that you could handle a new relationship as soon as you just got done with one. You just spent years living life in one. Where your life was rotating on all about your ex. You got to have time to learn how to live life now that your life isn't like that anymore. How can you think some one can come in your life as soon as it happens. If you don't even know how to live life now.
Stop feeling sorry for yourself
The quicker you realize that no really cares but you. No one can help you out of this just you. Do you think you ex cares how you feel. If she did you wouldn't be in this spot.
Your friends might for a while but it gets old quick. The only one can help you is you. Stop sitting their thinking that people or your ex cares how you feel and on day is going wake up in some miracle go back loving you. People change You have had friends that hurt you growing up and you got over that when you realized they didn't care how you felt.
Why are you give time hate life thinking that people and your ex really care if you do. The only one who truly cares and can help is you. So help yourself.
How the world has change in my eyes
First I realize that the world don't care about family's no more and being split up is the new way to go.This is one of the subjects I find myself thinking of all the time. Because spending time with my daughters going to school meetings or even just out in the world. Nobody really stays to together any more.
I remember when I went to school all my friends parents were to together. I can't even remember a friend I had that their parents were not together. Every time I went to a friends house it was always a family in that house.
A mom, a dad and the kids no one I knew was had a split up family. But today even when I go to school meetings all it is split family's. My wife and I feel out of place because we are happy together and when you try to speak to other parents all the want
To talk about is how bad the ex is. People are not caring about how their actions effects people no more. The bad Thing is that the world has accepted that and thinks it is a good thing.
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