What is the secret to making a guy fall in love with you? How do you push him into committing to you and your relationship? Are you tired of waiting for him to get there on his own? Trying to make someone fall in love can actually work against you.
Continue reading to see what works and what doesn't.
It is a natural instinct to withdraw when someone is trying to force you into doing anything.
Human nature tells us that we want to make up our own minds and we should ignore someone telling us otherwise.
This is exactly what happens when a woman puts the pressure on and works on making her guy say the "L" word.
There are a few pointers to keep in mind if you want to keep your guy around and eventually help him get to the point of commitment.
Sex is not the way to make him fall in love.
Sex surely can grab a guy's attention and can get him very interested; but, your connection will be fleeting and shallow.
Ease up if you are already sexually active, or hold off on starting if you are not.
You need to connect on a much deeper level than physically.
The bond you must form is an emotional one; you start as friends and become closer as time goes by.
You will begin to connect with deeper feelings as you both start to open up to each other with your most private thoughts; now, the love process has begun.
There are two very important things to remember at this point: a man moves much slower through the process, and you cannot force him into feeling something he is not ready for.
Let him move at his own pace and just relax and be patient as you move forward.
Rather than focusing on when he might finally promise commitment to you, focus on enjoying the time you spend getting there.
Let him see the fun you have when you are together and how much better his life is with you in it.
You can't make a man fall in love by pressuring him, but you can make him see what a great decision it will be when he finally makes it.