If you feel like your relationship and marriage to the person you love is just spinning out of control and you feel like there is no where for it to go but down, there really is hope for you no matter what.
It doesn't matter how bad things seem or how much you are fighting or about what, just that you are both willing to try and work out whatever problems you currently have.
The most important thing is that both people recognize that there are problems and are willing to try to work them out.
One great way to start really getting down to what is getting between the two of you is to communicate how you feel about each other and what you can do to make things a little bit better when it comes to your relationship.
Also discuss in detail what you expect from your spouse and the relationship itself.
These are sometimes questions that couples do not ask each other because of a fear of discovering a painful truth and having to work through it together.
Putting your marriage back together will definitely be a challenge, but it's something you can do together that will ultimately bring you closer together.
Hopefully in the end you will have realized how much you mean to each other and why you first got married, another thing that couples often lose sight of from years of fighting and arguing, which will only make a marriage more miserable and difficult to keep alive.