Can love be gay or is it just love? I think for most it is just an attraction that can't be explained.
Gay love is no different.
You see a guy that you like and you want to be with him.
Is that love? Who knows but I speak to lots of straight guys and they say it's the same for them, only they see women of course.
If it was always love then you would see a lot of people at the club only once.
I mean, it stands to reason, guys pair off throughout the night and if it was true love then they wouldn't be back the next night, would they? So, gay love for men, like straight men, can be just a moment in time.
Stands to reason I guess, after all, meeting a guy or girl on the dance floor for a steamy slow number isn't really any great indication of what they are truly like.
So they press a few of your buttons but what are they like in the cold light of day? For an hour or two they seem like your soul mate.
They like what you like and they are willing to please but the credit soon runs out.
This isn't just the way of gay love but happens for all of my straight mates too.
For those not paired off, standing at the bar assessing his chances is the place to be and sadly are normally always right.
Bet he leaves in the morning once he has seen his gay/straight love as they really are.