Going through a break up is like ripping out your very life substance.
You could be so happy and things going great, but it can all fall apart around you, leaving you lost and confused.
You may be wondering how you ever got into the situation in the first place.
Well, it is time to take a closer look at your relationship and how you can not only get back together, but get it right back on track.
Understanding what Your Ex is Thinking In the end, love and relationships are the most important thing in life - and that is why you are here to seek a solution to your problem.
Now, following a break up many people tend to panic, thinking that all is lost.
It is important to keep your head and stay calm, because you are going to need to be at your very best to show your ex that your relationship is worth keeping.
Remember that, for your ex, it would be far easier to get back with you than to find someone new.
Deep down, it is most likely they would like to stay with you, if certain criteria are met.
You need to think about what it is that they want from the relationship, and how you can perhaps meet your ex at least halfway.
After all, you can not expect to maintain a long-term relationship if one or both of you are unhappy for some reason.
On the other hand, it pays to bide your time in these situations.
My advice to anybody who has recently broken up is to let your ex have some time to think things over.
They will start to miss you and think about you if you are not constantly calling them or leaving them messages.
Use this to your advantage, and wait until there is a chance to meet each other naturally, as friends.
Making the Approach Then make sure you are friendly and talk to your ex - don't leave them on the other side of the room, wondering if you are ignoring them.
Get a good rapport going, and then just come right out and say how you feel.
If you have made a mistake, then admit to it and take full blame.
There is no point laying any blame on your partner, because they will resent you for it.