When you are in a relationship, things don't always go smoothly. But, whatever you do, you don't want to let things get too out of control, to the point where your boyfriend loses interest in you. You need to make sure your boyfriend still loves you as much as you love him. But, how do you do this?

There are some things about men that you need to understand. First, they like their freedom. They also like to be in control. What they don't like is feeling that you are trying to close them in. If you smother them with too much love and attention, they start to feel claustrophobic. This is just simple male psychology.

The key to keeping your boyfriend in love with you is learning to let go. For example, if you feel he's beginning to distance himself from you, this might be a sign that you are being too overbearing. If you're doing this, he'll start trying to push away from you. If he feels like he is losing control, or that he doesn't have enough space, he might not stay in love with you.

Men also generally take more time to commit than women. They don't do anything until they feel ready. This includes marriage and serious commitments. Don't push him too hard, even if you feel like sometimes he is trying to evade issues that are important to you. You need to make him believe that whatever he decides, you'll still be there.

Maybe your relationship is still at the "just friends" stage. If this is the case, you can move things along a little faster if you aren't always completely available to him. Of course, don't be too pushy, just subtly charming and alluring. This will pique his interest in you.