The spot you are in and you are talking to yourself about is, "how to make her fall in love with me" is your thought.
Love cannot be controlled, it just happens, when you are least expecting it, or not even looking for it.
You could just be at be the store and bounce around the store and run into the woman of your dreams.
At least she looks like the one you had in a dream.
You have just a few seconds to tell her that you are attracted to her, after checking out her ring finger for a wedding ring.
You smile at her, and she smiles back at you and you know you are in love with her at this point.
You could try to stumble over her, you could throw something down in her path, or you could just come out, and tell her you would like to get to know her.
The most compelling issue is how she is handles you flirting with her.
If she okay with this, go ahead and ask her out on a date.
Now that you have figured out that she is not married, or mixed up with another person.
The date goes fantastic, but what next? This is the time to let her be the aggressor, and do all the chasing.
The connection between the two of you is going great, you are going out a lot, and having loads of fun.
You believe that it is time to move forward, and are asking everybody, "how do I make her fall in love with me?" Everyone is telling you to be the person you have always been; just go have fun and be patient.
There may be things going on in her live that you do not know about.
For right now enjoy the relationship as it blossoms, and if she believes it is the right thing for her she will someday say, "I love you".