Before you broke up you must have had some great times together, having dinner and late night suppers.
So the question you need to ask yourself is do you really want her back?What caused the break up in the first place?Is there any way you can get her back?Of course there is without a doubt.
Give Her Some Space Time is a healer and if you don't allow that to happen with your ex girlfriend then you won't allow yourself that either.
You need to give her the space to get herself together, so she can gather her thoughts and emotions.
Give Yourself Space Get your own thoughts together; think why the break up occurred and how you can make things better.
Go out and enjoy yourself with friends, don't get drunk or go to wild parties to try and forget about your girlfriend, just see how being out on your own would be like without her.
Being out on your own when you use to have someone with you all the time is very difficult.
Don't Have Angry Thoughts Emotions will be running high just now because of the break up but be aware it does take two.
A separation between two people does not have to be permanent you can still get back together unfortunately it can take time.
Appreciate What You Have Even though you may be focused on your break up, think about the positive things in your life.
When you were together you always enjoyed each other's company and that's why you should be looking at what you both had, what attracted you to her in the first place.
Strengthen yourself emotionally before making contact; don't leave it for too long.
Call her every once and a while to see how she is.
Send her a short letter to say how sorry you are about the break up and that you would enjoy getting together for coffee and a brief chat.
Don't put pressure on her; just do things in a casual way.