Two parents fighting over the custody of their child is no doubt one of the most emotional and distressing subjects. The case ends with one parent loosing the custody of their child, the child who they love even more than their lives. If you do not want to be that parent then I suggest you read this article.

When it comes to child custody cases every state has its own laws. So there is no universal solution to this problem and you will have to deal with the situation in a different manner for each state. However, I can help you with some basics that will help you in one way or another in dealing with the situation.

Also remember what pain your child is going through. He/she is one little being who is passing through this tough time with no fault of his own. He/she is more disturbed about this than either of the parents and you ought to make sure that your child gets all the love that he deserves by both you and your ex. Also assure your child that they are not responsible for what is happening.

When it comes to the courtroom proceedings you need to be fully prepared for that. Be present yourself in the best possible manner. An example may be to dress and act properly. One way to put this is that if you are a drunk and have no good suit, sober yourself quickly and put on a new suit. Appearance can make all the difference as your ex will be looking for excuses to damage your reputation in order to strengthen their case.

Remember not to lose your temper in the court. And behave well and don't act like jerks in the courtroom. Getting emotional and showing anger is not going to help you.

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