A relationship ending is never easy and can be a turning point in your life.
It can cause pain, disappointment, and grief.
But keep in mind, if it's worth having, it's worth fighting for.
If your broken relationship with your ex is worth fighting for and if you're really willing to put the effort to get your boyfriend back, you can make it happen.
With that in mind, here is some helpful advice to get you started.
Take a look at yourself as a person.
Look back on what went wrong in the relationship and what your role was in its ending.
Determine what your mistakes and shortcomings were, learn from them, and correct them.
That is not to say you should degrade yourself or completely blame yourself entirely for the relationship failing.
Maintain your self-esteem but do admit your faults to yourself and try to become a better person from them.
If you have no backbone and don't respect yourself, it's unlikely he'll respect you either.
Though it may seem obvious, communication is key.
After you've taken time to think about it and make note of the issues in your relationship that led to its end, talk to him about these issues.
Let him talk to you about those issues; listen carefully and be attentive and don't interrupt his feelings or concerns.
Show him that you sincerely want to make things right and make your relationship work.
That being said, keep your self-respect.
Don't let him run all over you, if he is the type to do that, but be open and responsive to him.
Remember the qualities about yourself that he fell in love with and remind him of these things.
You need to get back to the feeling you had for each other when you first became a couple.
Pay careful attention to these good qualities and attributes and make sure notices them.
Chances are, if you want your relationship to work, you will have to make some changes in yourself.
Correct any flaws or mistakes in your life and change for the better.
Maintain the connection.
Even if you're deeply hurt from the breakup, try your best to keep close and be happy, positive, and enjoyable when you're around him.
A relationship is more likely to work when you keep a positive attitude.
Be there for him to lean on through any trouble he's having in life.
He may be hurting from the breakup also and just not want to show it.
Be considerate of your ex and sincere in your desire to get him back.
It may not be easy but nothing that is worth having comes easy.
Persevere and stay positive and you can get him back.