5 Romantic Tips to Use After a Break-Up
You have recently broken up with your girlfriend and a short period of time (a month or so) has passed but you still want her back and you don't know where to start.
Here are 5 low pressure, romantic gestures you can make to show her how you feel, without putting a lot of pressure on her.
These ideas will make your ex feel special without making her uncomfortable.
Gesture #1 - Send Flowers The old reliable, pick out a bouquet of her favorite flowers and attach a short note.
DON"T mention anything about getting back together or how much you miss her.
No "I Love You's".
Instead just mention that you hope everything is going well and that you hope she is okay.
Gesture #2 - Call or Stop by Mention that you were in the neighborhood and just wanted to see if she needed anything.
Lawn mowed, oil changed, anything from the store (you were on the way, remember).
Don't talk about your life or your problems.
Focus on her and don't expect anything in return.
After you do the favor for her don't hang around, just say how nice it was to see her and let her know you are available if she needs anything.
Gesture #3 - Send a Card or Gift Send something that you know she has been asking for but you didn't get her for whatever reason.
Make it as personal (focus on her) as possible without implying anything about getting back together or your old relationship with her.
Gesture #4 - Send Tickets To a movie, concert, sporting event or a play.
Make sure there are two of them and don't say you would like to go.
However if she asks you that's another story.
Gesture #5 - Give up Something Something that you know they wanted before you broke up and that you took when you left.
This could be something like a piece of furniture, DVD, video game, set of dishes, etc.
After you have made these romantic gestures you should have a good idea whether she is interested in rekindling the relationship.
Act accordingly.
If by some chance you two do get back together it may be worthwhile to continue these gestures in other creative ways.
It may be just the glue you need to keep the relationship alive and strong for a long time.
Here are 5 low pressure, romantic gestures you can make to show her how you feel, without putting a lot of pressure on her.
These ideas will make your ex feel special without making her uncomfortable.
Gesture #1 - Send Flowers The old reliable, pick out a bouquet of her favorite flowers and attach a short note.
DON"T mention anything about getting back together or how much you miss her.
No "I Love You's".
Instead just mention that you hope everything is going well and that you hope she is okay.
Gesture #2 - Call or Stop by Mention that you were in the neighborhood and just wanted to see if she needed anything.
Lawn mowed, oil changed, anything from the store (you were on the way, remember).
Don't talk about your life or your problems.
Focus on her and don't expect anything in return.
After you do the favor for her don't hang around, just say how nice it was to see her and let her know you are available if she needs anything.
Gesture #3 - Send a Card or Gift Send something that you know she has been asking for but you didn't get her for whatever reason.
Make it as personal (focus on her) as possible without implying anything about getting back together or your old relationship with her.
Gesture #4 - Send Tickets To a movie, concert, sporting event or a play.
Make sure there are two of them and don't say you would like to go.
However if she asks you that's another story.
Gesture #5 - Give up Something Something that you know they wanted before you broke up and that you took when you left.
This could be something like a piece of furniture, DVD, video game, set of dishes, etc.
After you have made these romantic gestures you should have a good idea whether she is interested in rekindling the relationship.
Act accordingly.
If by some chance you two do get back together it may be worthwhile to continue these gestures in other creative ways.
It may be just the glue you need to keep the relationship alive and strong for a long time.
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