There is no quick fix in repairing a failed relationship.
There are only real and at times difficult solutions which will get you back to the one you miss so dearly.
You've heard it before, respect and trust, along with love, are essential in maintaining a healthy relationship.
Eliminate just one of these items and the relationship is doomed to failure.
If your relationship is less than perfect right now, then what I have for you in the rest of this article can be used to stabilize, and hopefully, repair what is broken.
Let's face it, one of the main reasons for failing relationships is the absence of romance.
That feeling you felt when you first met and fell in love sometimes wain and disappear.
Those initial feelings subside a bit and the two of you fall into a relaxed and calm pattern.
It is at this stage that the two of you enter a dangerous stage.
It is a boredom stage.
Excitement has exited stage left.
But remember, that initial feeling you felt wasn't true love and it is a feeling which is most difficult to maintain.
But what is hoped for is that the relationship moves to a more deeper level of love.
What follows are ways to help keep the deeper and longer lasting type of love alive.
1.
Demonstrate qualities that make relationships last.
Honesty, loyalty, understanding, trust and most importantly forgiveness has to exist in a relationship.
Forgiveness is essential because making mistakes is as human as human can get.
But forgiveness when your partner has hurt you can be hard to do but has to be done for the relationship to succeed.
2.
Nest in line is communication.
When discussion anything, especially problems, it is necessary to be open and honest, but you must be positive and caring at the same time.
Don't wait to discuss problems.
Like the old saying, nip it in the bud.
Address it early before the problems grows.
3.
We are all imperfect by nature so when you experience your partner's imperfections it doesn't mean the end is near! Look at it as a learning opportunity.
That is, learn how to accept the imperfection which in turn will help the relationship grow.
This helps build trust and faith between the two of you.
It also demonstrates your understanding and compassion.
Remember, in these types of situations you are speaking from a position of love.
4.
Give yourselves a timeout if the two of you can't communicate.
If the problem is so great that effective discussion is impossible, then a timeout is in order.
Taking a timeout shows your respect for your partner and doesn't mean you are running from the issue.
It just means let's chill for now and return to the discussion when cooler heads can prevail! 5.
Be thankful that your partner is there for you each day.
And with this thankfulness live each day together to the max.
Each moment together should be considered an opportunity to be the best you can be.
If your partner is not at their best, you will be there to lift them up.
Now matter what you are there to lift them up, to support them.
6.
Enjoy each other.
Part of any relationship is the fact that there are some things the two of you enjoy together.
More often than not you've entered a rut and finding something enjoyable together can be a rut eliminator.
Hopefully, you have found something here which can help you repair what is now broken.
But whatever you do, keep working at that relationship, it is too important to lose!!!