Are you tired of being the wallpaper and are ready to be the life of the party? Do you want to be more interesting to men so that you can attract that guy you have been crushing on? Do you want to learn how to improve your dating skills so men become fascinated by you? Here are some tips you should remember.
1.
Be interested.
That's right - to become interesting to men, you have to be interested in them.
Practice your skills in listening and noticing things about your date.
When he says something, try to be interested in it and ask some more questions.
When he senses that you pay attention to what he has to say, he will also pay attention to you.
Keep in mind that everyone is a little nit narcissistic.
Stroke his ego a little and he will be more interested in you.
2.
Don't just talk - share.
There is a big difference between talking to someone and having a shared conversation with someone.
Be sure that you don't hoard the talk time.
Let your date express his opinions and share his experiences.
When the timing is appropriate and you have something good to share, then do so.
3.
Read a little more about everything.
You never know what topic may arise in a date or in any social situation, for that matter.
It could pop culture, travel, or maybe even gardening.
It helps if you know a little bit about everything just so you can get the conversation flowing.
If you are really ignorant about a topic, though, admit it and ask questions.
Show that you are interested to know more and you will become instantly interesting.
4.
Lastly, be positive.
No one wants to talk to a downer! Show your date that you are vibrant and that you love life.
Train yourself to be optimistic, and other people (especially the opposite sex) will perceive you as being creative, interesting, and ultimately more attractive.