It's not exactly a secret that clitoral stimulation is the easiest way for a woman to reach orgasm.
However, even though everyone knows about it, the clitoris rarely receives the attention that it deserves.
Women often complain that men can't find it, or, if they do, they don't spend nearly enough time on it.
The clitoris is one of the most amazing and wonderful things ever! be sure to give it the proper attention.
Clitoris 101 The clitoris is the only organ in the human body that exists solely for pleasure.
It has more than eight thousand nerve fibers, all there for orgasmic sensations.
Not fair is it? The clitoris you can see is a small, round bud located above the vaginal opening.
The parts you can't see are made up of a shaft and base that extends along the vagina walls and into the body.
A popular theory is that the g-spot is simply a bundle of nerves that is connected to the clitoris.
The clitoris can sometimes be difficult to find because it is covered by a soft fold of tissue called the "clitoral hood".
This protects the clitoris from overstimulation.
During arousal, the clitoris will enlarge and the hood may retract to reveal the tip of the clitoris.
Stimulation with hands Start with a sensual massage and gradually work your way down.
It's important to warm her up thoroughly before you get into the real action.
Quick note: Before touching her clitoris, make sure it's well lubricated.
Otherwise it might be a little uncomfortable for her.
Use her own lubrication or a water-based lubricant if necessary.
The clitoris is sensitive to even the slightest touch.
Tease her by gently tickling it with a feather or touching it lightly with your fingers.
When she can't take the teasing anymore, try rubbing it in slow circles.
Vary your speed and pressure (not too hard) until you find something that drives her wild.
Many women masturbate this way, so it's possible that she's already trained her body to orgasm from this.
Take it up a notch by using your fingers inside her while simultaneously drawing circles on her clitoris with your thumb.
The combination of clitoral and vaginal stimulation will lead to an intense orgasm.
Oral stimulation Oral sex is one of the most exciting ways to stimulate the clitoris.
In fact, some women even say that it is the only way they can reach orgasm.
Another bonus is that there's almost nothing you can do with your tongue that will feel bad.
As long as you're not too rough, she should enjoy herself the whole time.
Quick note: If she seems self conscious, suggest that you take a hot bath or shower together.
She'll be much more comfortable knowing she's fresh and clean.
You can avoid this issue entirely by taking the time to get her really hot and bothered.
She'll be so turned on she won't have time to be self conscious.
Use your tongue to gently lick the sides of the clitoris, stimulating it through the clitoral hood.
Place your tongue beneath the clitoris and slide it upward with soft, wet strokes.
A good technique is to use rhythmic deep tongue strokes to get her all worked up.
Then when she can't take it any more, hit her with a series of quick, teasing licks.
Return to slow strokes and repeat until she orgasms.
It is extremely important that you watch her reaction carefully.
Everyone likes different things, so it is important to gauge her reaction and react appropriately.