There are a few steps that you can take that will all but guarantee that you can get the magic back between you and your ex.
Your quick success will depend on whether you are ready to take action and actually complete the easy steps.
Step 1: Communicate your feelings When you have problems in a relationship, many times it is due to communication issues.
Do you think you communicate your wants and needs easily? Or are you a passive-aggressive type that says one thing and really means another? Working on your communication skills is the first step to having a successful relationship.
Step 2: Listening Then other half of communication is just as important in your relationship and that is listening.
If you can't listen and understand what your ex is telling you, then you are going to have a hard time getting the magic back between you both.
Step 3: Negotiation True love is not always easy and at times will require you to compromise and give in to your love.
Now you will have to find a balance between the little stuff (keep your car clean) and other more meaningful items.
Both of you will have to take a hard look at each other and yourselves to determine what you are willing to give up and what you need to work on to be compatible.
Step 4: Viewpoint How you feel about one another is also important to the success of getting back together with you ex.
If you feel strongly about one negative behavior, can you view it from another position and see it in a positive light? What if your ex spends too much time with his/her family? Can you look at how much they care about the special people in their life instead? When you view a behavior from another point of view, often times it becomes a good thing.
Give these 4 killer steps a try and see if you can get the magic back between you and your ex faster than you ever thought possible.