Is He Into You? Read This and Find Out!
Oftentimes women rack their brains trying to figure out if a particular man likes them.
They analyze micro signs like, "Oh he kept walking by me and stared at me all night long, he must like me!" Or "He always emails me interesting articles I like, but he's never asked me out, he must like me a lot but is shy!" Or "He added me on Facebook and always likes my photos, I think he wants to ask me out but doesn't know how!" Stop.
None of this means a man likes you.
Women often make the mistake of thinking that if a man finds her attractive, then he also wants to date her.
These women then do what they wish the man was doing (like pursue him and ask him out).
And then they get their heart broken because they start off a relationship with a man that was never meant to be.
A man may seem to like you, but if he isn't asking you out, its just conversation and your fantasies getting the best of you! If you plunge ahead and initiate contact with a man who you think likes you, you will get hurt if he was never planning on approaching you in the first place.
The nice guys won't lead you on, but there will be men who will go with it, go out with you, sleep with you, because you made it so easy.
And then they will leave you for the girl they really want.
The one who is more their type, who they would've gone up to and initiated contact with.
How to know if a man is into you? -He approaches you and starts a conversation.
-He asks for your number.
-He calls you within two weeks of getting your number.
-He asks you out on a date.
And then proceeds to ask you out consistently every week for the weekend.
-He says your name a lot (something small but shows he wants to be more intimate with you).
-He makes plans with you in advance for the holidays--your birthday, Valentine's Day, New Years, etc.
-He buys you a romantic present for your birthday, Valentine's Day, etc.
-He signs his cards Love (when you're in a relationship).
-He says I love you and his actions prove it.
-He proposes marriage.
Remember, a man may like you but your behavior might turn him off and he won't pursue you like he would have if you had given him the chance.
You must let him pursue you and initiate the phone calls, texts and date requests, especially in the first three to six months.
Be receptive to his advances if you like him, but don't be too easy so he doesn't tire of you and move on to the next girl.
Value yourself enough to make him work for your attention.
They analyze micro signs like, "Oh he kept walking by me and stared at me all night long, he must like me!" Or "He always emails me interesting articles I like, but he's never asked me out, he must like me a lot but is shy!" Or "He added me on Facebook and always likes my photos, I think he wants to ask me out but doesn't know how!" Stop.
None of this means a man likes you.
Women often make the mistake of thinking that if a man finds her attractive, then he also wants to date her.
These women then do what they wish the man was doing (like pursue him and ask him out).
And then they get their heart broken because they start off a relationship with a man that was never meant to be.
A man may seem to like you, but if he isn't asking you out, its just conversation and your fantasies getting the best of you! If you plunge ahead and initiate contact with a man who you think likes you, you will get hurt if he was never planning on approaching you in the first place.
The nice guys won't lead you on, but there will be men who will go with it, go out with you, sleep with you, because you made it so easy.
And then they will leave you for the girl they really want.
The one who is more their type, who they would've gone up to and initiated contact with.
How to know if a man is into you? -He approaches you and starts a conversation.
-He asks for your number.
-He calls you within two weeks of getting your number.
-He asks you out on a date.
And then proceeds to ask you out consistently every week for the weekend.
-He says your name a lot (something small but shows he wants to be more intimate with you).
-He makes plans with you in advance for the holidays--your birthday, Valentine's Day, New Years, etc.
-He buys you a romantic present for your birthday, Valentine's Day, etc.
-He signs his cards Love (when you're in a relationship).
-He says I love you and his actions prove it.
-He proposes marriage.
Remember, a man may like you but your behavior might turn him off and he won't pursue you like he would have if you had given him the chance.
You must let him pursue you and initiate the phone calls, texts and date requests, especially in the first three to six months.
Be receptive to his advances if you like him, but don't be too easy so he doesn't tire of you and move on to the next girl.
Value yourself enough to make him work for your attention.
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