How to save your marriage - You feel as if your marriage is ending, but you don't know how to save it.
  This article will point out a few reasons for marital problems, and will give you a few tips on how to deal with them, and fix them.
All marriages, at one point or another, have problems.
  Some are small, others are big.
  The bigger problems may include affairs, money, drugs and / or alcohol abuse, and fertility problems.
When your marriage is in trouble, you have to find out WHY.
  Talk to your spouse, and find out what they think is wrong.
  You may find that what they think is different than what you think.
If you can't talk to your spouse, then try to see it from their perspective.
  Make a list of what may be wrong in your marriage.
  Only by finding out what the problems are, will you be able to start fixing them.
There are many different ways to solve problems.
  You have to work at it, and probably try a few different things to find something that works in your relationship.
  All stable marriages have two important factors - trust and communication.
  When you learn how to effectively communicate with your spouse, you will find peace within your marriage, and happiness.
  This may not be easy, but is the best way to save your marriage, and make it last a lifetime.
  As your communication skills get better, your marital bond strengthens, and you will be able to work through life's biggest problems together - without worrying about divorce.
When problems arise, remember the good times in your marriage.
  This will help you to fight the negative feelings, which will lead to resentment and anger, making it almost impossible to find solutions to the problems.
  Your marriage is not doomed!  You CAN save it, when you are willing to put some effort into it.
  It won't be easy, but nothing in life that is worth having IS easy.