If a guy's not calling then there is so much you should not do to get yourself in a state. Learn what the signals are from the end of a date and then decipher what they mean after that. If they say it was nice to meet you then the chances are they are probably not going to call you if this was at the end of the date.

Not just that but if a guy doesn't make a lot of eye contact on the date and talk about themselves for the most part, the chances are they are not that interested in who you are. So when it comes down to it, there are only two ways the date can go, either he will call you or he won't and if there is not a positive outcome then you need to make sure you work on yourself before worrying about anything else.

Is there anything you did wrong? Were you too clingy or too needy on the date? Is there anything else on the date that you wish you could have got in there? If the answer to any of these is yes then there is so much that you need to get yourself into and so much that you need to change in order to get yourself into the right frame of mind for your next date.

You will not strike out all the time and you will not be struggling to find guys that are after you. Everything you do is put under the microscope when it comes to dates and if these are any remedy in this world it is that you are analysing him just the same. Analysing whether or not he is able to keep eye contact and if there is any other signals you can pick up upon there is no doubt that you will do so.

The most important thing is that you need to make a huge impression on them and make them want to call you. Don't give away too much when it comes down to it and don't make yourself an easy target for a blow off, you cannot get everything into a first date, so don't try. Just learn what you need to learn and get out of there. Don't be need y and don't make the date a huge pressure, just relax and enjoy it.