The Signs of a Cheater

A lady the age of 50, had been questioning herself and pondered whether her partner of 29 years, was still being faithful to her.

She was unable to determine, with certainty, the possibility of him cheating.

From her perspective, he was showing all the obvious signs that would typically be present with a cheater, however, she was not willing to front him with no proof of his accused adultery.

She came to me and asked for my help.

I could tell from my first look at her, she was distraught, stressed and working herself up over the fact that her partner might be cheating on her.

I had to sit her down and calm her, then ask what drew her to her answer. I wanted to know how she managed to come to the conclusion that her partner was a cheater.

I further explained that the fact she was pondering whether or not her partner was a cheat, meant that something had changed dramatically in there relationship to make her think this was so.

I expressed to her with the 5 general signs a cheater would display;

• They begin to distance themselves between you and show a lack of interest in what has always been the norm in your relationship.
  
  
• Unexpectedly, they begin to treat you extremely nice; Dote you with unusually expensive gifts
  
  
• Make requests or suggest wildly erotic and unusual play during sex, including things you have never done before.
  
  
• Showing an increased interest in sexual things, such as pornographic content
  
  
• They suddenly become private, need a lot more time away for no rationally explainable reason

I also had to mention that these are the obvious signs of a cheater, and at times misread or not understood correctly by the accusing party.

I pursued with my questions and managed to get to the core of what was making her believe her partner was having an affair.

She rendered to me that her husband had for an unknown reason, suddenly taken an interest in the property market. While doing so he neglected to mention of this activity to his wife.

When she confronted him about the properties, he simply said that it was in her best interest to have no knowledge of it. As to not let her make a mistake by buying a lemon property.
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I queried her to go further in detail as it did, at that time, sound as though there was a possibility of him not actually having an affair.

I delved into her case. I announced to her that I would only be able to analyze what she said to me. I would be unable to view his responses in real-time as there conversation would be continuing elsewhere, unless he agreed to come in and have a chat with me (which she replied would not be the case)
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I pushed to get him in and she blatantly refused.

I said to her if I was unable to witness this, I would have to write her a guide, showing a method of how to get the answer of whether her partner was Cheater. She discovered that he had been planning to retire and finally settle in an area they could reside in.

The housing business was him investing his 401k into old shacks, doing them up, and banking the profits.

She even went on further to say that she got him to provide proof he wasn't cheating (while smiling and thanking me for my help!)

She addressed me that my book went into explicit detail, and encapsulated every aspect on how to catch a cheater (which wasn't the case thankfully)

She urged me to do something with it, to let everyone else who suspects there partner of infidelity, have the ability to close there questions, and get there answers.

I ended taking on her advice and got the site http://www.it-helped-me.webs.com up and running so everyone else in need can get help.

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