When you first fall in love with someone, everything looks so perfect and you are so absorbed in your new relationship that you find your boyfriend flawless.
Then, when you are settled in the relationship after some time, small things which you completely ignored now bother you.
You decide to break up with your boyfriend.
Did you really analyze the situation to understand why you broke up with him? The way he ate, talked or walked maybe bothered you? Now you are full of regret and you have perhaps even tried to win him back but it was fruitless.
You have perhaps started the wrong way by calling him several times a day and he has never taken your call.
This implies that your boyfriend wants to be alone.
After all, you have hurt his feelings and he is feeling sad.
So, use this time to think clearly about the cause of the break up and give your ex his space.
Some girls test their boyfriends by breaking up with them and see to what extent they try to reconcile with them or if the boys simply back off.
This is not recommended first of all.
If you truly love your boyfriend and he also has strong feelings for you, it is useless.
People who often do this manage to arouse self-esteem problems instead.
If you have lost your confidence, it is better to talk to a professional.
The latter will help you to solve your problems and you will be more positive than ever.
Your ex will not want to get back with you unless you show that you are responsible and you will know what you are doing in the future.
Do not take any decision out of the blue.
If you are honest with your boyfriend, he will really appreciate it.
Before breaking up, it is always wise to talk to him so that he knows about your anxiety.
You may thus avoid the break up.