So I ask the question, how do you see your love life? Will you be happy with the type of partner you have or that you may be interested in? What will make you happy? What qualities of a partner are the most important to you? As an exercise, try writing a list of attributes down on paper or on a word processor.
List the attributes most important to you first and then work your way down to the least important attributes.
Then list any negative qualities that you want to avoid and how important these are.
This is a good way of getting real with yourself and figuring out the relationship that you desire.
Analyzing Your Dating Prospects After realizing your ideal relationship, you may start to notice that everyone falls short of perfection.
There is no such thing as a perfect lover.
There will always be personality differences, social differences and other factors that will put your love to the test.
You must analyze these dating prospects and potential relationships and decide whether or not it's something worth pursuing.
What do appearances really tell us about a person? Physical appearances really don't tell us a great deal.
Some very beautiful people may have very ugly personality traits, while average or below average looking people may be very beautiful on the inside.
However, the idea that first impressions convey something profound about the person can be accurate.
Your first impressions of a person, based on what they do and where they are in life, could very well point to some important personality traits.
Don't be so enamored by a person's looks or by their witty conversation that you fail to notice some very telling features that might clue you in on a person's best features and worst flaws.