Everyone of us in our lives has experienced a split. We sure don't think about break-ups when we start a fresh relationship. We target the positive and cheerful occasions when a relationship is reasonably new. With time, issues may occur in any relationship. Here are one or two tips that can help you in case your boyfriend wants some space. You're probably asking yourself, space? What does he mean space? There could be several reasons why your boyfriend may need space. It doesn't definitely mean there's something you're doing wrong , it may just be he's having personal issues. These personal issues might be a current personal problem he may be facing at work, family, etc . Insecurity could also be a cause that he may need space or perhaps fear of commitment.

First, you have to gain control of your emotions at this point. I know this is a shock to you, but you have to remember the word "self-control". I know this tough to do, particularly that you are in love but don't let your boyfriend take the best of you. Don't jump into conclusions or assume why he wants space. Ask your boyfriend for clarification on why he wants space. You want to see the clear picture and the explanation behind it before making any choices of your own.

If you do see your boyfriend still communicating, this is a strong indication. He may still have possible feelings for you. Do not stop communicating if this is the case. Keep your communication to a nominal though. Don't make yourself totally available. You need to confirm he realizes he lost you. Do keep in mind you don't want to have your wall totally up. Ask him how's he doing and dealing with his situation. This permits him to see that you truly care about him and not solely targeted on your relationship. Self-confidence is the key at this point.

Within time he will start to show signs that he need you in his life. Though do expect the opposite. He could just need to be friends. You would like to be emotionally be ready to expect either or. Lets say he's slowly trying to warm your decision, then remain receptive and re-light the relationship you have, regardless of whether its just friends for the moment.

If your boyfriend continues to draw close to you, then you can try to open a little bit. Remind him of the happy times you shared together and silly moments. Avoid negative talk or bad experiences in your relationship. You want him to draw closer, not push him away. If he does show signals that are not showing any interest, then do push away. You do not want to get to involved and be grief-stricken again.

I am hoping in your case he is indeed heading your direction, and before you know it, you're back in each others arms. I went through an identical situation and there were steps I had to take to win my ex-boyfriend back. Hope it works for you!