So your boyfriend is gone and you find yourself wanting to get back together with him.
The first thing you want to do if you are trying to get him back is to understand why you broke up in the first place.
Although you can't change the past, you can be better prepared for your next relationship.
Secondly keep yourself from becoming one of those needy women that chronically calls and harasses your ex.
Doing this will do nothing but push your boyfriend even farther away.
If you are trying to get your boyfriend back you simply must understand this.
Even if you don't feel it, you want to seem calm, strong, and confident.
You're more likely to spark your boyfriend's interest if he sees you as a self-confident and happy woman rather than looking miserable and depressed.
Take some time to just focus on your own passions and hobbies to build self-confidence.
Don't just sit at home feeling depressed and crying about how much you miss your boyfriend.
Avoid eating too much food to make yourself feel better or not taking care of yourself or your basic grooming.
He will only see you as a miserable and lost person trapped in depression.
Try to take some time to get out with your friends to keep yourself busy.
This will give you the chance to focus on other things and allow you some time to mend your broken heart.
Chances are in your favor that your boyfriend will find your new confident self very attractive.
After he sees you happy without him, he will start to question himself and wonder if he made the right decision.
This is a very important part in getting your boyfriend back.
I don't advise that you try to make your boyfriend feel jealous in the hopes of getting him back.
This sort of trickery doesn't usually work out well.
Often times, it just shows him that you are done with the relationship and that he should give up too.
What you want to do is remind him without sounding needy or desperate that you two actually had a good thing going.
When you come at the dilemma like this, your boyfriend will feel more confident about you no matter why you broke up.
Don't let it get to you if he is in a rebound relationship since this is out of your control (those things rarely last anyway).
Saving your relationship will require that you understand how to communicate effectively.
To get your boyfriend back, you need to stop bugging him and telling him how lonely you are without him.
In order for him to want to give your relationship a second go, you need to remind him of all the good times you two have shared.
So take some time to work on yourself and you'll be that radiant woman that caught his eye to begin with before you know it.