You are here because you feel that you are a nice guy but somehow - in your opinion - women or girls don't find you attractive.
Whilst, on the other hand, other, plainer, less interesting guys seem to have all types of women flocking to them! Do they know a secret formula that makes them irresistible to women? No.
But the do know, by instinct or through experience, what makes women 'tick'.
Let's say that you want to become irresistible to all women (at least to all mentally and emotionally healthy women!) so that you can go on dates with them.
Follow the following simple steps and things will work out for you: 1 - The Way you Look.
I do not mean that you need to be Brad Pitt of George Clooney.
Not at all! But you need to look like someone who takes care of himself at all levels.
You may say, oh, but I want to look like a 'tough guy' so this does not apply to me! You are wrong! You can look tough and even rugged, but there's a huge different between rugged and someone who is a 'loser'.
Huge difference.
So you need to be well groomed (basically even if you want to look like a biker you need to have clean clothes, smell nice (or not smell bad!), have nice enough skin, wash your (if you are balding just shave it all off or make sure you're wearing a great cut which enhances your face rather than make it look odd or 'uncared for'); your clothes and shoes need to be in good order (no stains, for example).
There is a huge difference between 'casual' or 'rugged' and 'un-kept' and 'un-cared' for.
Women know the difference (at least women who are emotionally and psychologically healthy) Nobody who is not a loser wants to date someone who looks like a loser.
You don't have to look rich, believe me, but you must look like someone who's 'together'.
If you are not confident about your face grow some sort of trendy beard, whatever suits your face.
Try and be fit and in good shape (again, you don't have to be a body builder at all but someone who looks like he takes care of himself) although a few extra pounds will not cost you a relationship.
It's all about looking like you know how to take care of yourself.
Women subconsciously look for men who can take care of them so you need to look the part.
If you look like someone who's not taking care of himself women will automatically assume you won't be able to take care of them.
Remember, this is often all at subconscious level.
2 -Your behaviour (the way you walk, talk, move etc) needs to be confident no matter how shy or reserved you are.
You don't have to be a socialite at all (many girls or women like shy men) but you need to exude confidence, the fact that you feel good in your own skin, so to speak.
However, you do not have to be a player (in fact, many women or girls are put off by players!).
So what to do? Smile confidently at the woman you want,, look at her as if she is the most beautiful woman in the world but don't look desperate (no woman likes a desperate or obsessive man!).
If you talk to her, focus on her (not on other girls/women).
When you talk to her, actually listen to her, remember what she says, pay compliments to her intelligence, her wit, her smile and so forth.
Do not pay compliments to her body parts (otherwise you'll look and sound shallow at best).
You can do the latter when you are well into dating! Again, always try to praise her brains first and her physical appearance later; why? Because if she is objectively beautiful she'll be used to such complimentes, so you want to stand out from the crowd and make her notice you! So you must praise something that she is probably feeling less assured about! However, if she is not objectively beautiful she may feel unsure about her looks so praising her looks is a good idea (but don't overdo it otherwise you'll sound insincere).
The secret is to praise aspects of her (physical, emotional, intellectual) where she does not feel confident.
You can always take a safe guess by checking her body language or her demeanour!