Remember when..
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Come now it can't be all that long ago.
We were all young once upon a time.
What I am referencing to is Remember when we first got married (I am aware that some did it more than once) How we used to do all those little things and actually got a thrill out of it.
For instance ..
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Going for a walk and holding hands, or with our arms wrapped around each others waist.
I for one still do that.
Yes I am married, going on 35 years.
I could care less if I see people I know or not.
Never worried what the neighbours thought.
How about back rubs or massages.
Hey don't knock till you tried it.
Somehow these days those Hubby gets the back rub LOL Or receiving Flowers for no reason.
Didn't you just love that.
I am not talking about flowers for birthdays, anniversaries or when they are making up (although that wasn't bad either)(wink) Got flowers a few times.
Finally got really ticked off at him for that too.
If he wants to make up he had best think twice and bring what I love.
Fishing gear, tackle, lures, rod or reel.
I didn't care Flowers die and fishing gear will last forever.
OK so I am not your typical female type.
Talking for hours on end.
We would ramble on about anything.
Where did that go.
When did it stop.
Why did it stop.
Playing together.
Yes I said play together We still have wrestling matches, tickle each other, go water sliding together.
We still horse around together OK should stick with play together.
I can recall not so long ago going to Walmart to purchase new personal under things (bra and panties) No I am not shy neither.
LOL Got to the cash out and hubby pipes up real loud like and says You paid how much for a bra and underwear.
The poor cashier dam near fainted.
She was red as a beet and looked down.
Then hubby says Hey isn't that bra a tad too big.
Aren't you still wearing training bras and them gotch Hardly anything to em All I could do was laugh That wasn't nuff neither Carries on by saying Come on baby I want you to model them for me right now.
Yes we are still married..
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But what I truly want to know ..
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What happened to the little things we used to do for each other..
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Before we got married we used to make sure we were lookin good before we stepped out the door.
This include men too.
I for one rarely put makeup on anymore..
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Why..
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Couldn't tell ya.
I think we have all grown too complacent with each other.
Do you remember that first kiss, I do.
And remember those long conversation on the phone, I do Do recall all things you used to just to be with that person.
I do Do you remember being there when you were needed most, not because we have to be there, but cause we wanted to Our aspirations, needs and desires, and especially how we perceive ourselves, would have changed, some in subtle gradual ways, others more dramatically.
It means that the love we feel for someone at 25, based on who we were then, will not necessarily last until 40 or beyond, unless that partner has evolved in the same direction with us and we have the same feelings of appreciation and value towards them.
Myself well..
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After rereading everything I have wrote..
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Have to get back on the band wagon..
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I for one need to stop being so complacent about the little things..
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Wendy