You want to get back together with your ex.
The question is how? If you're like most people you are getting a lot of advice (some not necessarily wanted) on what is the best way or even worse, why do you want to.
You may or not be a planner, but now is not the time to fly by the seat of your pants.
You need to make a plan if you want to be successful in getting back together with your ex.
In order to formulate the plan that you will need to more forward on helping you get back together with your ex, you need to keep four things in mind: 1.
You need to figure out what caused the relationship to end in the first place.
It didn't just happen.
It could of been one thing or a combination of things but until you get a handle on what it was, you are going to be floundering around.
2.
Now is the time to take a few deep breaths and calm down.
You have been through a lot of drama with this breakup and now is the time to remove your feelings of loss and desperation.
This will help you examine the relationship dispassionately so you can determine if trying to salvage the relationship is the best thing to do.
3.
If you are truly interested in saving the relationship, now is the time to sit down with your ex and let them know that you want to save the relationship.
Why is this important? You don't want to commit yourself to a lot of effort to save a relationship that is not going to be saved.
4.
If your ex is willing to give it a second go, understand that there is a lot of work still to do.
You need to get together with your ex to figure out where to go from here.
What compromises or changes do you need to make to make the relationship work.
Remember, just because you want to get back together with your ex, doesn't mean it is going to happen.
Your ex may have decided they do not want to go through the process or may have already moved on.
Does that mean that you just wasted your time? No, you were able to do a little self-examination and now you can use that in your next and possibly last relationship.