Are you ready for love, and you would like to know how to make it happen? Would you like to stop a previous pattern of dating that runs out of steam just when you'd like to heat things up? Do you know how to gear up for a serious relationship? If you're ready for love, and you've met someone special, here are a few things you should know.
#1 - You can't force it.
If your guy seems to be holding back, he might just need some time.
You can't really make someone love you, but if things are going well between you, you can let love unfold.
You just need to have some fun together instead of pushing heavier issues into the dating dynamic.
If you have only seen each other a few times, it is really too early to try to force your guy into a commitment.
Even if you are feeling impatient, don't let yourself be bitter or frustrated.
This will set a mood of pressure and take the fun out of your time together; he won't respond well to that.
#2 - Men want love, too.
You shouldn't make the mistake of thinking that all men are afraid of commitment.
Some women approach dating on the premise that men are never ready for love and it's a woman's job to bring them to the point of commitment.
While some guys are content to play the field, there are plenty who want a steady girlfriend.
Look at your current situation.
If your guy has been stringing you along for a while, he might just not be the right one.
Invest your time in someone who wants the same things that you do.
#3 - Don't try to seduce him into a partnership.
When is the right time to have sex with someone new? That is a tricky question, and the answer is different for everyone.
You should decide what sex means for you.
If you will automatically feel completely attached if you sleep with him, hold off until you know that he will view things the same way.
Don't just sleep with him in hopes that the sex will result in a commitment.
Make sure that you are both ready for love before you take the biggest steps.