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Tips to End Infidelity

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FIVE HOT TIPS TO DESTROY INFIDELITY IN A RELATIONSHIP
What is infidelity: as define by a dictionary infidelity is the act of not being faithful to wife, husband or partner by having sex with someone else.
A sad condition in a relationship is most times seen when; there is unfaithfulness in the relationship. This situation of infidelity has cause what we could call a terminal disease in a relationship, where there is a lack of trust between mates.
HOT TIP ONE
KNOWLEGDE
Its truly amazing to note that educated people find it easy to study subjects like physics, chemistry, genetics and even fluid mechanics ( check that one out) but find no reason to acquire knowledge on there relationship, well friend if you are reading this you are one step ahead of some people. There is a saying that what you don't appreciate is subject to abuse. You might like your relationship but you do not appreciate it enough to study on how to make it better. Just like a person who refuses to study for an exam and thereby flunks the exam. Individuals who chose not to acquire knowledge on how to make there relationship successful have decided to flunk their relationship and that will include heart break, emotional turmoil and for the really immature people that occasional sipping of poison because the will to live is gone.
My dear friend for your own sake please read about relationships, I know you are all knowing but still read, you are not the first to date someone or to get married. This is not an issues to be ignorant about. Ignorance is a prerequisite for permittivity. htt://www.anatomyoffailrelationship.blogspot.com

TIP TWO
MATURITY
Maturity: what is your definition of maturity? I would like to know. Maturity in a relationship cannot be over emphasize, although age plays a vital role in maturity its not the determining factor. Because I bet you there are those in your locality who you feel should be mature due to there age but, are still behaving like babies.
Infidelity could be traced to a major root cause IMMATURITY. Wait I did not define maturity how careless of me. So I will give the boring definition. As a dictionary puts it, it's the quality of thinking and behaving in a sensible adult manner. Infidelity can be reduced or even stopped by an increase in your maturity and the maturity of your mate.
Mature people know that infidelity is just another way of saying I hate my body and I wish to destroy it. I don't know about you but I like my body.

TIP THREE
CHARACTER
Infidelity and character
If you notice I coloured it. Yes I did. The character of a person could either lead to infidelity or the strongest bond ever forged. Yes a character of a person could unify or break apart.
As regards infidelity the bad and inconsiderate, self center character of an individual could cause his or her mate to be unfaithful. But there again as tom Hannah put it tolerance and the celebration of individual's differences is the fire that fuels lasting love.
What exactly did you expect when you got married or started dating? A perfect person! The last time I check the storage of perfect people we were out of them, what we have are full blooded imperfect people.
In an occurrence of infidelity the search for the cause is basically external not internal. Yes it would be best to check for fundamental flaws in your character

TIP FOUR
SEX
Sex is the. Wait. I don't know what sex is but I know it feels good. Now seriously, when it comes to infidelity and sex,
It's always the same old news he or she does not satisfy me. So it's out the door in search of the one that will satisfy the "urge". For men they play around. For women they double date. Well the problem might just be a low self-esteem, low self-control, and also being a bad teacher, is it not possible to teach your spouse how to satisfy you instead of bolting out the door in search of another person. As it always seems the new person who satisfied the "urge" may and will not be able to satisfy it anymore where do you go next? I Know I know!
Out the door.
The art of going out the door, could be compared to going in search of a new knife to stab yourself with it, the only difference is at the onset it feels good but as time goes by the death dealing emotional pain starts showing itself.
It's known to some people as karma to some people as consequences base on choice as the book first things first by Stephen covey puts it, a stick has two ends pick one end and the other end follows you.
More inspiring tips coming soon
For questions please email me at
dragontrex@yahoo.com
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