Traditional Gifts

• The traditional anniversary gift list, thought to be started in the Middle Ages and handed down through centuries, can give you an idea for a gift depending on the year of your marriage. Although most people are familiar with the silver (25th) or golden anniversary (50th), there are also ideas for the first 20 years and then every five years thereafter. For instance, a couple celebrating their first anniversary would give each other something paper, although more modern lists have amended this to clocks. A tenth anniversary calls for a tin/aluminum gift, with the modern equivalent being diamond jewelry. You can find a complete list at findgift.com.
  
  

Sentimental Gifts

• A sentimental anniversary gift is one in which the thought counts the most; you can express your love for your partner based on how well you know her. Someone with many years of marriage behind him might present his partner with a scrapbook of all the most special times they've shared. A gift that reflects a common inside joke is also appropriate. A sentimental gift doesn't need to cost much or even anything at all. An act of service, a commitment to change something or even a heartfelt letter are all gifts that would be treasured by a sentimental spouse.
  
  

Heirloom Gifts

• Some anniversaries call for gifts that will remain special throughout future generations. These types of gifts might include a ring or necklace with the birthstones of each child, a pocket watch, tie pin or cuff links with an inscription, or a unique and well-made clock. These are the kinds of gifts that can be treasured today and will still maintain financial and sentimental value for your heirs.
  
  

Memory Gifts

• Some gifts can't be placed in a drawer, worn or even held, but have potential for wonderful memories. Among the most common is travel, especially when it's possible to get away without the daily distractions of children and work. If a vacation somewhere isn't possible, you can still make memories by doing something together that's out of the norm. A hot air balloon ride, picnic to a secluded spot, or tickets to a show your spouse has always wanted to see will result in memories that will last for years.