Do you believe that love is a feeling, a wonderful feeling that fills you up and gives you a spark whenever he is near? Your heart is troubled by that special someone? You could throw all to caution for that special person? Where that person stands to speak intelligibly is barely possible? Common sense begins to fail you making you feel like a complete idiot? You feel you aren't good enough for him and you are constantly scowling when he is talking to another girl for a split second? All u ever live for is to please and thereby you care less about your own opinions? Words like "I can't do without him" fills up your speeches? If you are in any of these categories then let me bring back to reality as all these are phases of the M&B version of love and what I call "blunt stupidity".
Of course girls in a high rate are victims of these phases.
I found this not entirely shocking that such phase is popular but it does make me curious as to why maturity doesn't cup it..
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no! Maturity does cup it, the issue is that how many girls actually get matured as the time goes by.
"To age is quite different from to come of age" I say this because a lot have grown up.
Maturity so therefore isn't growing but growing up.
I have the pride to say that I can now say that I am growing up although, I am a few years behind my age but I hope to catch up one day.
Love on the other hand, is not a feeling as we describe it but it is but a choice.
Due to the advanced study, it has come to my understanding that such knowledge is well known among the boys than the girls.
You choose whatever you want to love, how much sacrifice you are willing to give and how far you are willing to go.
Your heart moves faster and slower at the same time is because of two things; you permitted it and God permitted it.
Love at first sight is blunt stupidity! Love formed in a day is hysterical, love created by the mind is an illusion, and love that happens through appearance basically is temporal and damaging.
Love with a thoughtful choice, honesty and mutual understanding lasts long.
Have you ever tried to fight your M&B version of love and it didn't go away, I have and it did and brought me a new light to the meaning of love.
You pray for the person, you think you can sacrifice for the person, that is not love.
Sooner or later you are going to get frustrated.
The first thing that hits a girl when she is involved in love is a spark...
uncontrollable and untamable spark blah blah blah...
Just as it is said that Everyone has the capacity to love but not everyone is willing to love so does everyone has the ability to influence love but not everyone wants to be loved.
In this sense, you could think you love someone because of your lame definition of love, but when you open up your limited knowledge, you will find out that something is missing...
I guess I found out the hard way.
Anyways, battle against blunt stupidity is not easy because if you are already deep in it wow! Especially when the guy is not responding thinking of it, fighting it is like getting over a breakup that is why it is blunt stupidity.
If you still doubt it when you find yourself in love with someone find out the things or reasons why you love him.
That will differentiate between blunt stupidity and true love because blunt stupidity will be based on physical and material substances surrounding the person while true love will carry virtues of him his inner person.
Use the attributes in Galatians 5:22-23; 1cor 13:13.