Something interesting always happens when 99.
9% of relationships end.
People start behaving as if the relationship is a competition.
There is blame being placed, arguments about who is more right and who is more wrong, and all the classics.
We've all heard them a million times.
This will never lead you to win back your ex.
As a matter of fact it will derail that wish.
One of you is going to have to be the bigger person (In this case, you).
Obviously if you want your ex back, you really miss them and want to get back together with them.
So drop that chip on your shoulder.
Get rid of the ego.
It's only slowing you down.
Nothing good can come from it, except more arguments, and do you really think you need more of that? Try to think back on the relationship as a whole.
Were you happy? Again, I'm guessing your nodding your head yes, otherwise why would you be trying to find a way to win back your ex? So focus on that.
Focus on what makes this person so special and why you want them back? Also, think about the person you were at the beginning of the relationship.
Are you the the same person that you are now? What were you like when the relationship was going splendidly as opposed to how you are, now that the relationship is in turmoil? Whatever you do, don't make contact with your ex until you are properly prepared for what you are going to say.
Don't try to speak to them with all heart and no brains.
That stuff may work in the movies, but this is real life.
Take the time to control your emotions before you speak to them.