Are you in love with a guy who has a serious commitment problem and you don't know how to get around it? Do you think his commitment problems could be enough to split the two of you apart? Are you afraid you may never rid him of his commitment problems and your relationship won't be able to survive it? While most women are in a rush to get a commitment, there's no denying that men are on a completely different wavelength.
If you want to help your guy work through his commitment problems, read on.
Understanding Why A lot of men have just cause when it comes to their reluctance to make a commitment.
Either they've been down that road before and it was too painful or difficult to even consider doing it again, or they've watched their friends get put through the meat grinder and to come out a paler, thinner, weaker version of their original self.
Your mate's problem may also be financial.
While some men have no qualms about splitting their fortunes with the woman they love, some men do fear losing literally everything to a woman should the relationship not work out.
No matter the problem, be open and receptive to hearing him out.
Avoiding Attacks When a woman has tried time and again to get a guy to commit to her, she can grow a little desperate to get her own way.
This often leads to arguments, attacks and accusations.
It suddenly is his fault that the relationship isn't going anywhere and she wants to let him know she's not happy with the way things are.
This can result in a major blow up.
When push comes to shove, many men will simply bow out of the relationship altogether.
Always opt for subtlety rather than an onslaught.
Proof of the Future Commitment is a scary idea for a lot of guys in the best of circumstances, but if you're already showing him a bleak image of his future with you, you're making things worse.
Right from the start, let him see what he has to look forward to just by being with you.
Time with you should be easy, fun, comfortable, exciting, enticing...
everything to keep him wanting more and to keep him interesting in building a stronger relationship with you.
Pull Back Just when you've shown enough of what he can expect from you in the future, take a little step back.
This doesn't mean you have to walk out on him, but return to activities you may have let slide in order to be with him all the time.
When a guy has a girl he really loves and really enjoys being with in his hands and he then has to sit by and watch her go off to do her own thing, two things happen in his brain.
His level of admiration for the woman you are rises and his need to have you to himself increases.
Solve his commitment problems with understand and patience.
You'll have him right where you want him.