Dean's girlfriend has decided to cool things off for a while.
Dean simply feels left out in the cold by this decision and is struggling to figure out how to get back together with your ex girlfriend.
Dean comes up with a plan of his own to win back the heart of his "Lady Love.
" The problem is that there is no rhyme or reason to the plan he's created.
His plan calls for a full press.
This robs him of a few precious things that could work in his favor.
First, Dean could have disarmed her a bit by agreeing to the relationship and respecting her wishes.
If he had told her that cooling off is an excellent idea and let things get a little chilly before pressing in with talk of heating up again he would have had the element of surprise on his side when he decided to bring out the spice and warm things up at a later date.
Second, he robbed her of time to really miss him.
She needs to know what she's missing in order to feel the loss of the relationship.
If you're there at every turn she'll feel smothered on the one hand and justified on the other.
So, what should Dean have done? Dean should have let the relationship cool off for a bit.
He should have allowed her start to missing him and provided her with an opportunity to approach him about getting back together.
It's always better when she thinks it's her idea.
There's a time in life to play it cool and in the beginning, this is a wise thing to do in most situations.
But, how do you know when it's time to turn up the heat? You should sit back and wait.
Be patient and wait for her to approach you.
Or...