Divorce these days seems to be on the increase at an alarming rate.
The reason for this most often is because spouses are not communicating or meeting each others desires properly.
The key to solve all of these problems is learning how to make your spouse notice you.
In the beginning of any relationship, love seems to have a life of its own.
It seems like without effort it makes you feel as if you are on top of the world.
You will catch yourself smiling and laughing often.
The love you share will make you feel warm inside whenever your loved one is with you.
It seems that everything and everyone feels good.
But, this feeling does not last forever.
After about the first year of marriage, romance seems to take a back seat.
Since there are many day to day activities of being married, focusing on each others career and even beginning to raise a family, romance and or courting of one another in the marriage doesn't exactly get it's fair share of time that is needed to maintain a happy marriage.
Love and romance in marriage has to be worked on constantly just like anything else.
If you think that your love for one another can grow by itself, without any effort on your part, then you are wrong.
If you want a healthy and loving relationship, then you and your spouse should work on the relationship.
So, the question is how to keep the love alive in your marriage and make your spouse notice you? You need to have quality time with your loved one.
No one should take it for granted that your partner will always be there by your side.
You should always remember the time when you and your spouse were still chasing each other so to speak.
There is no reason why you should not find the time with your partner amidst all the other marriage activities and duties that you have.
This might require finding someone to take care of the children while the two of you are out.
The time that you and your spouse will spend together will re-energize the passion that you and your partner had in the old days.
You and your partner have to have and maintain physical intimacy.
Sometimes just sitting around and enjoying your favorite drinks while talking with your spouse can lead to a number of physical or mentally intimate encounters.
The important thing to do is to remain determined to have some type of fun together.
Also, this shouldn't be the time to solve any problems of your lives or discuss anything else besides what you both enjoy and love about each other, at the same time maybe coming up with other ways you would both enjoy showing your love for one another.
You should just focus on each other, period.
Another thing is, pay close attention to your spouse.
I'm sure you've heard this before, but it really is the simple things in everyday life that can make a huge difference in how your spouse feels about you.
Give your spouse kisses, hugs or gifts.
Remember what it was last week he/she was wanting or needing so bad, and surprise them with it.
Also,you should consider, and whether or not you have time to do it, you should make time, is to take care of your physical well being.
Whether it's working out to get back into shape, wearing the types of things that your spouse enjoyed you in before or getting back on track with maintaining proper hygiene etc.
All in all, these little tid bits should certainly help make your spouse notice you.